To be upset with my sister-in-law when she phones my house and makes it very clear that she does not want to say a word to me and that her only thought is to bypass me as soon as possible and speak to my husband? I understand that it is her brother that she really hopes will answer, but there are two of us living here and she could at least be civilized. I spoke to my husband about it as it had happened so many times and asked him to have a word with her. He did do this but they both seem to have come to the conclusion that it is just 'her way' and that she never meant any offense and, basically, I am being far too oversensitive as I have not been well. That conclusion did not surprise me in the least as I always seem to end up being blamed where his family are concerned.