To have smoked a cigarette

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Okay so I gave up smoking 4 years ago when I found out I was pregnant with DD. I have had no desire to smoke since and can't believe how addicted I used to be.

Last night I went out for the first time since ds(7mo) was born. After a few drinks I had a few puffs of a friends cigarette. It was horrible, made me feel sick and stuck to my lip and I now have a blister there.

I told dh when I came in and he was quiet and looked annoyed. I went to bed and this morning he said he was disappointed and told me to "Please don't do it again."

I sort of feel like he was telling me what to do. I don't want to smoke again, but if I did it would be my choice.

He's gone off in a bad mood with me and there is allot of tension. I'm a teeny bit hungover and not sure if i'm being unreasonable.

I think you are being a bit unreasonable, it sounds like he asked you nicely. Smoking can be so addictive and he's probably worried you'll start again. Some people can have the occasional one and leave it at that but for others its the start of the slippery slope. Of course it's your choice but smelling like an ashtray does affect those around you. If my other half smoked I'd kick him out of bed! Why not wait until you feel less hungover and chat it over.