To expect the school to inform me

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when my DS1 runs head first into the edge of a metal door. Especaially when i'm in the building attending a meeting......?

well by their own admission there were "so many children in the sick room" i seriously doubt that half of them went into the book

I would be furious and I think you handled it well.
Your poor DS.

Once I picked up DS from school and he had his arm in a sling.

He had hurt himself at sport and had numbness in his fingers, but they DIDN'T CALL ME

I told (well actually shouted) at the first aid woman that they must call me no matter what.

Twits.

i don't think i have actually calmed down yet. Each time i think about it my blood starts boiling again...... bloddy idiots.

YANBU - that's outrageous, your poor ds.

YABU, however, to be so loud in a heated debate about school transport, in school time, that your ds could hear you. Were you shouting then?

yeah the debate was heated but the door to the room we were in was open so he would have heard me even if i had been speaking normally.......