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WIBU to complain to the MD's office?

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whydobirdssuddenlyappear · 01/04/2010 11:05

OK. Am STILL WAITING for a parcel that was guaranteed delivery yesterday. Have rung the depot numerous times to try to find out where it is and what's happening (and whether they were redelivering on the promised AM redelivery. They weren't...).
On last phonecall, having finally had enough with the patronising attitude of 'if your parcel hasn't been delivered, tough', yes I shouted at the guy on the phone ('execrable service' and 'parcelfarce' might have been mentioned ). And yes, I realise I shouldn't have shouted. But seriously. All they needed to say was 'sorry, we'll sort this out', rather than having a basic attitude of 'well you can't expect us to deliver everything now can you? So it's guaranteed. So what?'. Anyway, I'd requested a manager ring me back, and he did, but when he put down the phone and went to speak to his staff/driver to find out what was happening, I heard myself being referred to in fairly uncomplimentary terms ('proper screamer' being one). Then the manager rang the driver and told him I 'had the painters in and was going mad'. I pointed out gently that I'd heard every word. No apology. Just 'well they get shouted at all the time'.
So. WIBU to then ring the MD's office and put in a complaint about the staff? I mean, FFS. We've all complained about an awkward customer before but you don't fucking do it in their earshot, do you...
And there goes my swearing cherry on mumsnet...

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BouncingTurtle · 01/04/2010 11:56

Definitely complain.

Oh and your calls will have been recorded. You know when you get those automated messages that say "Your call may be recorded for training and quality purposes"? Tis bollox - EVERY call is recorded! And if you heard them slagging you off, Birds, then it will have been picked up on the recording. I would probably write to the MD, stating times/dates of the calls and follow it up with a phone call as well.

Absolutely disgraceful behaviour! I heard one of the agents I look after mutter "well fuck you then" as his awkward customer rang off. Now thankfully she didn't hear him, but I certainly did. So when I next had a session with him, I played the recording back to him. He was utterly mortified, and very lucky - if she HAD heard him and made a complaint he would have is contract immediately terminated.

emsyj · 01/04/2010 12:00

I think if you work in a customer-facing role you HAVE to be polite regardless of what the customer says to you. Having said that, when I had a very aggressive client on the phone the other day I did tell him nicely that if he was going to be rude to me that I would end the conversation. That is about as far as you should go if a customer is rude/shouting/horrible, but it should rarely come to that. It's the first time ever that I have said that to someone, and he was not just angry he was offensive and aggressive.

YANBU to expect a degree of professionalism from customer service agents.

LadyBiscuit · 01/04/2010 12:02

I would definitely call and complain to the MD. I'm sorry I did think you were on a bizarre attention-seeking split personality kick at first

In the meantime, raid the kids' chocolate stash

BouncingTurtle · 01/04/2010 12:03

Emsyj - exactly, they are trained not to react in the face of antagonism, the only exception being is if the customer is using foul/rascist/sexual language, then they can tell the customer if they continue they will terminate the call.

whydobirdssuddenlyappear · 01/04/2010 12:04

Bouncing, I heard them slagging me off when the depot manager rang me on his mobile, so sadly that probably won't have been recorded. Never mind. I think what pissed me off most was 'she's got the painters in'. Fucking sexist. Like a woman can't be cross without that being the reason.

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everytimeyouarenear · 01/04/2010 12:05

you dropped another cherry,Whydobirds...
I had to go off to say things about you out of your earshot in case you get upset.

what Lonnie said. Thing always look better on paper and will ellicit a response. Of course you have to send it recorded/guaranteed so they can't say they haven't received it and therfore cannot investigat a non-existent complaint.

don't you have ano other eoticons or biscuits? I'm allergic to chocolate.

everytimeyouarenear · 01/04/2010 12:06

don't you have an edit button?

whydobirdssuddenlyappear · 01/04/2010 12:08

Ladybiscuit, no, definitely not (to the split personality thing) - didn't even notice the username till some time after Screaming pointed it out.
And I already did for the kids' chocolate stash
Anyway. It's here now. Thanks for being virtual ears to my venting. Am off to do everything I needed to do this morning that I couldn't do because of this bloody parcel. Which, by the way, is my birthday present and was supposed to be a bloody TREAT!
Gah.

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whydobirdssuddenlyappear · 01/04/2010 12:10

everytime, I've eaten all the other s.
Quite fancy a dancing banana though.

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everytimeyouarenear · 01/04/2010 12:13

I don't dance, sorry. enjoy your birthday treat.

LadyBiscuit · 01/04/2010 12:14

Glad it's turned up (what is it??) at last. And yes, it would have been the painters comment that riled me too - I don't mind them saying I'm arsey but that's just unacceptable IMO.

And no, no edit button everytime - makes things so much more interesting

whydobirdssuddenlyappear · 01/04/2010 12:16

Ladybiscuit, it's a beautiful old Singer sewing machine with some funky attachments for applique and stuff. Cos I'm really interesting, me .

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LadyBiscuit · 01/04/2010 12:27

I'm jealous! The engine's burned out on my Bernina so I am machine-less at the moment

whydobirdssuddenlyappear · 01/04/2010 12:41

Aww. I've got 2 now. This is a 3/4 size hand crank which I got because my lovely full-size treadle is so old that I can't get a buttonholer to fit it. Sadly, I can't play with it now though, as have to clean the house and supervise potty training DD (though given the fact of the latter am questioning wisdom of the former).

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