Last year, DH was banned from his own ebay account for using other people's photographs, copying their descriptions and I suspect ... trying to sell vouchers for theme parks.
Anyway, ever since, whenever he wanted anything off ebay, I got it for him on my account but I got that sick of having to put in my password every 5 minutes, I just told him it and let him log in himself.
At first, he would tell me when he was ordering something (because he still needs me to log into my paypal account) but after a while, he just started ordering stuff and "letting me know" I needed to pay for it. He did give me the money in cash but it's not really the point, the constant paypals were really starting to bleed my bank account dry.
Anyway I told him to stop using it all the time and now he only uses it now and again but he hassles people on it. For instance, he bought a printer and started sending the bloke various messages (in terrible English, which made him (or me!) sound really immature and rude) asking to end the auction early etc. Then when he got the printer and it didn't work properly, instead of going through the proper chanels, he started hassling the bloke sending numerous emails about it etc.
Now he's done it again with someone else. Bought something and because it wasn't posted IMMEDIATELY he started harrassing the seller asking when it would be sent and "have you sent it yet?" etc etc.
Thing is, these people obviously think its me sending the abuse and I'm worried it's going to either affect my feedback or get me banned.
A few weeks ago he bought a bag, when it got here it wasn't as big as he wanted it to be so he was going to leave negative feedback!! I had to stop him.
He's so unreasonable with it. For one thing, I just don't like all the paypal stuff coming out of my bank account as it throws my budget out and secondonly I don't like him sending people messages from "me" in the way that he does. It's embarrassing.
AIBU to change the password and not let him on it anymore?