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To think we should get a refund ?

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loumum3 · 31/03/2010 07:45

My ds and 3 other children went to the cinema last weekend to see a PG film, this was the first time they went without an adult. They were charged over 18 (adult) prices even though they are 13 and 1 is 14 years old. No way do they look 18.I have complained about this and have been told the member of staff thought they looked over 18 ! They were not even offered student prices, just full whack £9.70 adult prices
I feel this cinema is taking advantage of children who don't know what they are doing and they are being greedy and unfair.

I think they should give the children a refund.

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tortoiseonthehalfshell · 31/03/2010 07:48

None of them said "we're students"? I'd have known to do that at 13/14. They're not children who don't know what they're doing, they're 14 year olds! 14 year olds know about concession prices. Bus tickets, passes into parks, it's hardly a new concept for a person that age.

You can't expect a cinema to refund tickets when the ticket buyers didn't mention that they were eligible for a concession price.

You're sure they didn't just buy concession tickets, pocket the difference and claim the cinema ripped them off?

rainbowinthesky · 31/03/2010 07:48

Why didnt they say they were teenagers? Ds is 14 and I would be cross with him had he paid adult price.13 and 14 are old enough to know what they are doing.

loumum3 · 31/03/2010 07:55

They didn't even realise what they had been charged...boys eh ? I noticed it when I only has 30p change from a tenner !

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rainbowinthesky · 31/03/2010 07:56

"boys eh?" It's not about their gender. My ds is 14 and a boy and if he made this mistake it wouldnt be because he's a boy. Girls are quite capable of making the same mistake.

loumum3 · 31/03/2010 08:01

Oh well, maybe this doesn't apply to your son but it certainly does to this group of boys and to be honest 99 % of the boys I have had round over the years. We had one once who didn't know if he had sugar in his tea as his Mum always did it ! They have never been anywhere where they have had to pay so didn't realise they had to ask for a child ticket. I just can't see how someone would think they look over 18.

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rainbowinthesky · 31/03/2010 08:03

PErhaps that was his mum's fault rather than his. SOrry I hate gender stereotyping and the idea that the male of the species is incapable.

acunningstunt · 31/03/2010 08:05

Do they have the receipt? I don't think you could expect the cinema to address the issue without one - as someone said, they could have just as easily spent the difference on 10 Marlboro Lights.

loumum3 · 31/03/2010 08:07

True, probably his Mum's fault. I'm not keen on stereotyping either but the difference between the boys and girls when they are all here is amazing ! generally the boys are really quite dopey and shy and the girls are sharp as razors and very quick, the boys really don't know what has hit them !

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LoveBeingAMummy · 31/03/2010 08:08

I don't think they should get a refund, its a valuable lesson for the boys to know what they are asking for and how much something should cost.

rainbowinthesky · 31/03/2010 08:08

Maybe that just your sons and his group of friends. Cant say I'd say the same about the teenagers I know.

loumum3 · 31/03/2010 08:09

True, but shame they had to do it with my money as opposed to theirs !

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mangoandlime · 31/03/2010 08:12

A lesson learnt. Put it down to experience and move on.

Girls would have done exactly the same. Poor boys, they get a rough deal!

agasarecool · 31/03/2010 08:18

I think you should get a refund, and (based on personal experience) I bet if they'd wanted to get into a 15 or even an 18 they would've got in no bother.

I would be cross, but at the end of the day its a good learning experience for them - I doubt they will make the same mistake again!

tortoiseonthehalfshell · 31/03/2010 12:59

Maybe you should let them pay for things now and then. How do you get to 14 without having been anywhere where you have to pay?

loumum3 · 31/03/2010 19:08

Easy, they have only ever been out with adults.

I got the refund, the company agreed the children didn't look anything like 18 and said the member of staff had been told not to charge children adult prices.

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rainbowinthesky · 31/03/2010 19:09

I would give them far more opportunities to be out without adults.

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