this isn't the crime of the century but...am 5 months pregnant and have had vicious cold/ cough for couple of weeks. can't take anything for it, not going to kill me but can't sleep very well which is probably making me grump(ier). anyway, 'd'h is in the spare room cos my coughing 'keeps him awake' so he does get to sleep. today i was sitting with dd (2) minding my own business but having a fairly prolonged coughing fit. DH got incredibly pissed off and asked why i had to keep coughing cos it was irritating him and was 'put on'. leads to big row - mainly cos i absolutely have not been milking this/complaining (I would NEVER ask for sympathy from dh,lost cause..)but would just like him NOT to have a go at me for being ill. to be honest the bigger picture is that i don't feel i get much emotional support/comfort from dh at all and this is just (another) eg of that. although it does sound like a big storm in a teacup now it's written down