Maybe Im being a tad sensitive but my parents called around today, I was halfway through cleaning the kitchen and hadnt hoovered since yday morning (kids trailed food etc) but I was just about to do it! Anyway Mum and Dad asked why I hadnt hoovered and mopped, what had I been doing this morning (phoning companies reg bills etc!). Mum said 'we brought you up right, I always hoovered your bedrooms etc' 'You cant manage can you' ?! I was really upset. I told her I`d rather read a story with my kids than be doing housework all the time, ok so it wasnt as tidy etc as it should have been but it was hardly 'How clean is your house!'. Now I feel inadequate. They are great parents and Grandparents but why should they make me feel bad just because I dont have OCD???