DS has come home on a state.
He had massive anger management issues for several years (he is now 12), but we have worked really hard and apart from pre -teen angst I am very proud of the progress he has made in learning to control his anger.
His Junior school were not massively supportive and when we had CAMHS and SS involved, they denied he had any issues that affected him at school. However today, DS's senior school class mates have accessed his file, and the junior school had put it on record that he had SEN and that he had behavioural issues. He has been teased about this today and in his words feels betrayed and let down by the teachers at his old school.
Apparently it is relatively easy to access each others files at school.
Is this normal? DS has admitted to looking at other's, which I think is equally wrong.
Would the junior school not have had to tell me what they were putting on his file?
Is it likely that I will be able to appeal for this to be taken off. In DS's first parents evening, he got a glowing report and it was a testimony to the clean start and break that he had made.
He was so unhappy at junior school at one point that he refused to go. It was insinuated that he was manipulative and fabricating the bullying that was taken place. He was't. I want to nip this in the bud as soon as possible to keep him on the even keel that he has achieved.
He is so sad tonight and feels he is being shadowed by the past.