Hello All,
First time I've posted a new thread here - but would welcome your feedback. Sorry for long post.
AIBU to be very very angry that my DH went out to watch the rugby on Saturday at 3pm with the promise that he would be back by 11pm and I did not hear from him until 12pm the next day - the next day being Mothers Day. I didn't get a text, call or anything. Infact a mutual friend texted me to say that my DH had 'lost it' and wouldn't be home that night.
I am 9 weeks pg with D? 3 and we have two DS's aged 5 & 6.
He was definitely not with someone else, but did get blind drunk and just 'forgot' about me and Mothers Day. We used to party before our children, but have since settled (or at least I have) and moved on.
He does this about once a year - goes awol - but this time he did it on Mothers Day.
I feel completely undervalued, taken for granted and hurt - but am not sure if it is just my hormones talking shouting or if I do have a right to be so bloody angry. He was on the sofa last night (after I had packed his stuff and sent it to his mums) and has said a pathetic "sorry" a thousand times. To make matters worse, there were no chocs / flowers for mothers day. I was ready to throw them at him but sould have known better.
My darling boys were the sweetest boys and I got up at 6am in the nick of time to stop my 5yo making coffee for me.
So, mumsnetters, AIBU? Should I now get over it?