to think that dh should not have got hammered (again) when I was hoping for a lie in tomorrow?

[queenoftheslatterns]

dh went out at 2pm, came home at 6.30 (a vast improvement on previous nights out admittedly) he was drunk then.

since being home he has managed to wind ds up so much that he cried when he finally went to bed and drank almost a full bottle of wine that I was planning on having a few glasses of myself. my period started today, last week I had a flare up of teitzes and really hurt my shoulder. I'm knackered, he doesn't have football tomorrow, its mothers day and I was looking forward to a proper lie in. one that doesnt end at 8.30 as he leaves for football.

so tomorrow i will get up with ds at 6.30, wash up the mess from tonights dinner and make my own breakfast/coffee because i have married a selfish prick who cant stop after 2 beers.

What a selfish twunt.

DH is teetotal (so am I).

I couldn't put up with someone who treated his family like this because I'd never treat him or like that myself.

I can't imagine taking money meant for my kids' shoes and pissing it up a wall!

I even felt guilty using money I got for my birthday from relatives to get a badly needed haircut (it had been a year) and a new mobile (mine was given to me by a friend 6 years ago and you had to remove the cover just to turn it on. plus, the battery wasn't holding a charge more than a day).

Your family and you deserve so much better, Budd.

Hubba, the sporting event has nothing to do with it. You're married to a loser alcoholic who is too irresponsible and inconsiderate to have a family.

Make sure you spoil father's day for him.

I wouldn't have let the husband who couldn't open the door in
he could have slept in the garden

I wouldn't have, either, compo.

Especially if you were kipping with your son already because he raves when he's comotose.

Screw that.

I have a friend who is constantly crying to me about her DP, he is so fond of the fucking drink he doesn't even bother to go home - he goes straight to the pub. My friend then gets stressed because when he is pissed he sleepwalks and actually pissed in their DDs cubboard She has to wake up in the night and guide him to the toilet, but he actually physically fights with her - disgusting!!! Any man who would rather be in the pub than seeing his 4yo DD before bedtime would be an EX in this house

I'm with expat here. Jeez, why did you marry these men and why do you put up with it?

Budd - I hope your h makes the right choice.

I was tempted not to let him in but with the racket he was making trying to get in I didn't think it was fair on my neighbour having to be woken up too.

I'm still to mad to speak to him - I've been out with my sons all day and we had a great time. He actually send me a text saying 'I let you down - again' Prat.

When they boys are in bed I was give him his choice.

queenoftheslatterns I suggest that you do the same with you husband