Good grief. We discovered we had mice yesterday - it/they have chewed through DD's toys and bizarrely appeared to have dragged one of her spoons and a chunk of chocolate into her toy bag ( I mean, HOW did that get in there???? We are not the kind of house to fail to account for chocolate missing in action, and DD is only 9 months!)and had a good go at that too.
Felt sick as only that morning she was kneeling in front of her toy bag pulling out her books, and unbeknownst to us there was mouse poo and wee only a few inches away . So we called a pest controller out, don't like the idea of poison but felt we couldn't take the risk with DD crawling about and chewing everything at the moment.
I tussled with the humane trap issue a few years ago pre-babies and husband but once I realised that i wasn't going to be getting up and going out in the middle of the night to release them,leaving them distressed (and I didn't have DH to do it for me!}, it had to be the snap traps I'm afraid.
Mind you, all sympathy i had for them evaporated when I came home after a weekend away to find that yes, there was a mouse caught in the trap but that something else had eaten most of it! All that was left was the fur, legs and tail. I just about had a fit. And thought, well, if they're eating each other and it's going to be Lord of The Flies in my kitchen, then I don't feel bad about the traps...
So, YABU - don't feed them, whatever you do...if they weren't incontinent perhaps if would be different but you don't know where they'll widdle next