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To feel sick at the sight of posh kids dressed as tramps?

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musicalmum43 · 12/03/2010 09:51

My nieces go to posh private schools (same school as the Princesses Eugenie and Beatrice), and one of them posted on FB photos of a day they had spent at school dressed as tramps - they made a shelter in the classroom (inside obviously in case they got cold!) and one of them had drawn a beard on herself. It all looked great fun and jolly hockeysticks, but I think they could have got the girls down to the local Salvation Army shelter to hand out some soup or clean a hostel or something instead. I know going to a private school is because the parents are terrified their girls won't cope in the rough inner city that is Windsor (!!!!) but this level of role play is sick making. What on earth did they get out of this, except to have great larks, what ho!! I could just hear their posh voices chirping away!!

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MmeBlueberry · 13/03/2010 08:20

My son spent the October half-term doing an initiative called Soul Survivor.

Basically, he had to build his own shelter using cardboard boxes, pallets, tarpaulins, etc. He only had the clothes he was standing up in. He was allowed a toothbrush, which was obviously a pampering concession.

His food was rice and lentils for the week, unless he did 'worked' for the odd treat. He had to walk half-a-mile to get water (this initiative was highlighting world poverty as well as general homelessness).

It was very moving for him and he leart a lot about what it meant to be cold and hungry - one of the things was just how long every day is with no books (other than a bible) or computer games, or even homework (he didn't mind that bit). He raised a lot of money for the charity, which was significant to him but also made the donors think about the issues too.

People are too quick to sneer while they sit back and do nothing.

It is nice in Primary School (assuming this is one, since that is the only stage that the Princesses went to the same schools), to illustrate their topics. For example, last year, my DD's class had a Greek day, as they were learning about Greek mythology and modern Greece. They dressed up in sheets - it helped them focus. I hope there weren't too many Greeks who were offended by this exercise (we have three Greek families in school). I don't think they were looking down on ancient Greeks because they didn't have Ugg boots. I don't think so.

TheRuralJuror · 13/03/2010 15:06

I still say that this could have been done for any number of different projects, english or drama for example.

If it is more wrong for it to be posh children, then maybe they should segregate the class before they start (there are children at the school on from families on lower incomes on scholarships and bursaries) - would that be better?

The princesses did go to the same boarding school, btw.

MmeBlueberry · 13/03/2010 17:25

The princesses went to Upton House, Windsor, then Coworth Flexlands, Chobham - both day schools.

For their senior schools, Bea went to St George's Ascot, and Eugenie went to Malborough - as boarders.

LeQueen · 13/03/2010 18:08

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Twinkster · 13/03/2010 21:15

Another blissful childhood here, and another set of parents who are doing as much as humanly possible to cosset and protect their children in an Enid Blytonesque bubble. I do'nt see any problem with it. If others want to do differently, that's their prerogative.

tethersend · 13/03/2010 21:24

I had a very happy childhood and I didn't go to private school... great if you have the luxury of choosing private education, but it's not a prerequisite for a happy childhood!

Twinkster · 13/03/2010 21:30

Argh: bad typo alert!
d'o'n't hold it against me.
Private school is absolutely not a prerequisite for a happy childhood. It probably is where we live, though. Sadly.

j0807bump · 13/03/2010 21:36

when you say this you do sound a little jelous, i would be to though, the fees are prob more than our yearly household income.

still can we really comment on on whether it was an appropriate classroom exercise when we weren't in the lesson?

do you know what the point was?

sitting in a heated room with scruffy clothes and building a shelter sounds a bit too diff from real 'tramps' anyway or did they later get the special brew and crackpipes out?

(I do know that this does not apply to all homeless people before any complaints )

j0807bump · 13/03/2010 21:41

just re-read my post and full of spelling mistakes. that is due to tiredness and not state education.

tbh, if i had the cash i'd prob send DCs to private for the education, not to protect them from the poo that goes on in the world

DavidHappyDad · 13/03/2010 21:48

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Twinkster · 13/03/2010 21:51

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