to expect an orgasm every time with DH/DP?

[kaffers]

Apologies if this is TMI - last night my DH had a very 'fulfilling' time whereas I did not (i.e. he came during sex; I wasn't even close) He rolled over into a blissful sleep; I lay awake feeling frustrated, I got up at obscenely early time with DD (he had a lie in). I have been in shit mood all day. Think it was made worse because I'd intiated the sex - had been feeling a little neglected and wanted to feel desired blah blah blah (despite being heavily preggers - yes I know - not the best time to want to be a femme fatale). I've never had this situation with DH before, ever. One of the reasons I fell for him was that he used to say it was the man's 'duty' to provide a woman with ahem, fulfillment...he seems to have changed his mind. Any thoughts? (Thank God I can post this anonymously - I'm blushing with mortified embarrassment writing this down)

agree with secondcoming. Ladies first! When I was heavily preg DH couldn't reach those parts so I got used to DIYing at the same time IYSWIM - sideways or doggy. Everybody wins!

I expect it everytime and I see it as my husbands duty to make me orgasm. If I dont orgasm the sex isnt finished.

It might be a bit different being that pregnant though I had orgasms most times all the way through pregnancy. I only had one time when I didnt and I was in a hotel at about as far gone as you and the heating was on and couldnt be turned down. We ended up doing it in every position we could think of, oral, foreplay etc but I just couldnt get there.

I feel your pain kaff..lol..I have been known to get 'upset' when I dont get the big O during pregnancy too, sometimes you have to be straight talking!..I have said to DH in the past that I need an orgasm...without it I may become a vicious nagging fish wife ...we now have an understanding...if it doesn't happen he makes up for it the next day...no prompting req.

I'm heavily pregnant too, and DH will hardly go near me. I'm afraid it's a case of self service with a battery-operated friend. Not the rabbit though, that might be a step too far at 8 months pg, something er... non-penetrative.

thesecondcoming, I'm just giggling at the irony of your name........!

You need to be talking to him, not random strangers on t'interweb!
But, sex is about more than orgasms, for me. Though I can't remember ever wanting it when I was pregnant so maybe I can't compare.