Am really pissed off. Both had a short nights sleep last night and both tired.
He has tendency to be negative and pessimistic and sees doom and dispair around every corner.
TBH I am fed up too, worrying about money, baby due in 3 weeks, work etc... same shit everybody worries about.
But for him, instead of doing something about it, he just buries his head in the sand.
So far today, I got up with kids, took them to pre-school, went to midwife, picked up kids, made their lunch. He has done some minor diy... He's fed up and tired so looses his temper with me, I told him to shut up and not be rude to me so then he goes off in a huff and goes to bed.
FFS, I'm sick of it. He has been depressed etc in the past, but I think he is just playing on it now, either way he won't do anything about it. Refuses to take doctors advice and do some CBT, refuses to eat sensible diet, refuses to go out and get some fresh air and exercise etc so I say sod it.
You just want sympathy and an excuse to be an arse, apologies to others suffering from depression, I know this is a horrible illness, but he isn't depressed, he is just fed up same as 99% of the rest of us.
Just went in bedroom to get something and now he is asleep. Well that's great for you mate, but it won't get anything else sorted will it?
He says house is a mess, need to chase up phone calls etc blah, blah, but it won't get done while he's in bed sleeping will it?
AIBU to think he is being a self indulgent twat and should get up and get on with it? God knows I feel like staying in bed all day sometimes but at the end of the day what does that acheive?
Fucking lazy arsed fucker!!