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Would this have pissed you off?

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Enchilada81 · 08/03/2010 12:33

Sorry, 2nd AIBU of the day but I'm really angry.

I started following the atkins diet around 3 weeks ago. it's an awkward, restrictive diet and I had to go online and research low-carb recipes just to be able to have something to snack on.

So I ended up making some peanut butter oat cookies a couple of days ago. They didn't turn out brilliant but they tastes nice and that's all I was bothered about! I never claimed to be a gourmet chef.

So I put the "Blobs" on a plate and left them in the fridge. Now, DH has seen me many times go into the fridge and take one out. They're only bite sized but they're good to "grab" whilst in the kitchen.

Anyway I've just gone to get one and they've disapeared. I text DH to ask where they were and I got this reply "sorry I didn't realise you still wanted them, they looked a bit funny so I threw them out."

In other words "I needed room in the fridge for MY stuff so I've chucked yours"

I know its a bit petty but would this annoy you? he could have at least asked? but it's just another example of my opinion meaning jack shit in this house. He does what he wants, when he wants and fuck everyone else.

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carocaro · 08/03/2010 12:36

I agree with you entirely.

My opinion, like yours, is last on the list. You spek but no one hears, then when you shout louder you are accused of being OTT and kicking off about something 'not really that important'.

I hear you sister!

Go piss on his fridge food.

kreecherlivesupstairs · 08/03/2010 12:36

Yes it would. I don't understand why they need to be in the fridge though. Couldn't they go into some tupperware or a cake tin?

bernadetteoflourdes · 08/03/2010 12:40

YANBU fer feck sake he threw yer blobs out! I would go for his beer/cider/shandy failing that his knob, what a cucking funtish thing to do Iam v on your behalf!

rasputin · 08/03/2010 12:41

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BAFE · 08/03/2010 12:44

hangings too good for him

elmofan · 08/03/2010 12:45

yes it would annoy me , (read your other thread) tell him he is not getting that game for his birthday now

OneFatArse · 08/03/2010 12:45

YANBU and they sound yummy.

Could you buy him a mini fridge instead of the computer game

Maybe he has done it so you eats lots of carbs and don't need those new clothes for your birthday!

kneedeepinthedirtylaundry · 08/03/2010 12:46

I'd have him "rubbed out" if I were you! But seriously, it's rude of him and inconsiderate.

idontlikemondays · 08/03/2010 12:48

Blokes can't win, there's probably a thread in here somehwhere about "my DH never chucks old manky stuff out of the fridge..."

Shannaratiger · 08/03/2010 12:52

You are definately NOT BU. Agree with kreecher men need boxes with ownership labels! I have wheat and dairy intolerance my brought free from biscuits no body else would touch, home - made ones I would definately have to label. However in our place I seem to be the only person capable of getting anything actualy from the kitchen so the problem never actualy arises - I know I spoil them all!

Itsjustafleshwound · 08/03/2010 12:53

It sounds as if it is a bit more than a rant against biscuits being thrown out ...

If it helps any my DH is incapable of putting ANYTHING in the dishwasher or sink for washing - he either leaves an empty dish or enough in the dish/on the plate to warrant it sitting in the fridge but not enough to feed a gnats testicle ...

Does my head in but YANBU ... any jury would consider it severe provocation ...

bernadetteoflourdes · 08/03/2010 12:53

I had to take out a contract on some geezer who was just a little too partial to my chocolate fingers, it was the constant "dipping in " that I coulcn't take. I think this thread should read as Biscuitgate part two it really takes the flippin

MrsVidic · 08/03/2010 12:55

it's not about the biscuits is it? if you feel that no one listens do something about it or this will all end in tears...

trixie123 · 08/03/2010 13:17

hi
yes he's git. I did atkins a few years ago and it is a bit tough (but it worked). there are some good things around you can use as snacks - I used to keep frankfurter sausages in the fridge and also packs of cheap ham - you can always have those though obviously you don't get the "sweet" kick. Chocolate brazils and peanuts are ok in moderation I seem to remember. Boursin cheese on celery or very thin water biscuits are ok too. Also if you crave something sort of clean tasting after eating lots of eggs and things, lemon juice in water is ok instead of fruit juice.

good luck anyway! I had afriend who did it who was veggie and lived on tuna salad for 6 months!

heQet · 08/03/2010 13:23

It's not the blobs, more the "If it doesn't matter to ME then it doesn't matter" attitude that annoys, isn't it?

Enchilada81 · 08/03/2010 13:43

Heqet, you're right. It's not really about the blobs. I can always make more.

Its the attitude behind it. I could just imagine him muttering to himself as he threw them "oh, they're only Enchilada's wierd blob things, they can go".

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