Sometimes we get on, sometimes we don't, but I've managed to pretty much erase him from my life unless he's actually here to pick up/drop off dd. So tonight, after he has dropped dd off, I get a text along the lines of 'can I come round tomorrow night?', not to see dd, to see me. I text back, 'er, noooo'. Text back, 'Your loss, I have a big dick, etc'. Well, obviously I know about that, I have had a child with him, (am slightly worried about what the 'etc' might be though...) but really, what makes men act like that? Am not affronted or insulted, and definitely not tempted, just amazed that he saw fit to send that text.