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to have ranted at dp on the phone just now?

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dilemma456 · 04/03/2010 19:46

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thumbwitch · 05/03/2010 00:02

Chipping, love your turn of phrase but imo he didn't need to know his DD was waiting up - God, if that was my DH he'd have been back asap to see DS, he would have missed him so much! Can't believe this tosser's behaviour - although am wondering if he has a hidden reason why he didn't want to come home asap.

tortoiseonthehalfshell · 05/03/2010 00:13

Oh, your poor little daughter! What a cock, indeed.

My husband only travels irregularly, and when he does it's in situations where he's reliant on another driver to get him home (he's way out in the bush, it's a 6-8 hour drive, they carpool).

Last time, the driver insisted on making a couple of stops so that they got home at 8pm instead of 6pm.

My husband flew in the door at 8, tumbling apologies, and was so, so happy that our daughter wasn't yet in bed because he'd missed her. And did all the night wakeups that night.

Not to be all My Husband Is So Great, I just mean, that's what I'd expect of any parent who'd been away from their little one for a week.

Joolyjoolyjoo · 05/03/2010 00:30

I'm another vote for YANBU!

make him crawl. Be sorrowful, explain just how upset dd was. Go into detail and make him feel a complete shit. Then sigh and say "Oh well, at least she'll be more prepared for it the next time you let her down" Which should make him feel loooowwww, and hopefullt think twice about letting her down the next time

And then tell him all the saucy things you had planned that you are no longer in the mood for!

Alibabaandthe40nappies · 05/03/2010 10:10

dilemma - hope he is suitably repentant this morning?

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