to still be a little bit annoyed with my friend?

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This really is a very pointless story but I shall tell it anyway

Had to get the train back to my parents' home this weekend as my mother is very ill. It was a last minute thing so I didn't book a seat on the train.

I hadn't slept all night due to horrendous period pains so I was in a terrible mood!

Got the train with my best friend and her boyfriend. There were only two seats in the carriage so they both sat down and left me to stand by the door on my own.

I know this sounds very petty but I'm still slightly pissed off that a) he didn't offer me the seat straight away and b)she didn't tell him to stand up and give it to me as she knew I felt so ill.

My DP says it doesn't matter and although it's annoying I should still be peeved about it.

Am I allowed to be pissed off for a few more days?

OP - if you sat down and your friend sat down, but the guy was exhausted/had pains, would you automatically offer him your seat?

I think it was rude.

my DH would have offered you his seat for the whole journey

his mum taught him manners you see

and it's not just a bloke doing this for a little woman..he would do the same for an elderly fella, or someone with a child, or someone with a disabilty, well for lots of reasons

this bloke knew you had been poorly, and that you were worried

what a prize catch he sounds

poor you, I find standing for long when I have heavy bleeding days and period pains excruciating

Of course I would have stood up for him!