ok a little bit of history husband and i split july last year after being together 8 years with 2 DC daughter is nearly 7 and son is nearly 5.
ex MIL lives in oz and is coming over for a 4 week stay on the 13th march, since we seperated MIL has not once called to speak to her grandchildren and ex fil who lives 10 mins away has not seen or spoken to GC since before we split. mil herself has not even called or left a message asking to see the children once she is over here. we are friends on facebook and the only reason i knew she is comine over is because i saw a message she sent to someone else.
so i asked ex husband if he wanted to have the children any particular weekends in march so his mother could see them and if he did could he let me know, to which ive had no reply.
but now i have been offered the chance to go on a weekend away with my best friend to haven with the kids at the end off march which i have said yes too and the kids are coming to belfast with me on the weekend of the 13th march (i did ask my ex if he wanted to have the kids that weekend but he said he couldnt let me know that far in advance) so i had to book for them to come with me, its my nieces christening so i couldnt not go.!
so am i wrong to be pissed off with them all, thinking if there not bothered about seeing the kids why should i feel guilty about them being away when his mother is over???