V ggod friend very honourable and kind person, she's dds Godmother.
Recently managed to extricate herself from a dead end 8 year going nowhere relationship and moved from Manchester to South west to be nearer her family. Sad to see her go but pleased she was moving onwards and upwards.
Has been having a ball since she moved, lots of dates, going out etc seemed really happy. Has come to see us a couple of times which is lovely. Last time I was extremely stressed due to bf and relationship issues (have dd 3.5 and ds 5 months). When leaving she said, "you look like you could really do with some help, why do you never ask me?" I replied I didn't like to put upon people and she said "please please ask, I'll do whatever I can to help".
Anyway things got worse dh and me at each others throats, switching to ff v difficult, me being monitored by GP due to insomnia/exhaustion/mood disturbance/hallucinations. Contacted her and asked if we could book a weekend in in the next couple of months.
I got a text back saying ok, will call to arrange. No call. messaged her on Facebook, no contact back then texy again saying she would love to see us but wanted to co-incide it with a work thing up North. To cut a long story short she's not been in contact to sort anything out. I messaged her to say if she didn't want to come that was fine but to let me know as we have 2 dcs and have to be organised! (she's always going on about how she likes spontaneity ). Then a message from her saying how we meant everything to her. But still a refusal to commit.
This has been going on for 2 months. Have pretty much written her off as coming for a visit. That's fine just wish she hadn't fobbed me off. Also feel as she was one of my best friends. TBH it's the fact she's dds Godmother that bugs me a bit, she doesn't really take much interest. I understand she's single now and living the high life and we're just a boring family to her but didn't think she would be so flippant.
Have tried calling and messaged her last night, no reply. I'm obviously being avoided. The reason i messaged her last night was because i was worried about her due to her fb status updates, she seemed upset so asked if she was ok. No response but plenty of other facebook activity!
I'm wondering if i should just send her a message asking her whats wrong. I'm one to confront thangs and sort them but she's obviously one for avoidance.
Bit upset because I thought I knew her but feel like we the family "who mean the world to her" have been forgotten.