Hi all,
Sorry, I know I probably am being unreasonable but I am fuming with ex-dh for more reasons than just this!
We have a 9 month old DD, who lives with me, ex-dh lives with his parents (he is 25).
He texted after work yesterday to say that he had a headache, so wouldn't be coming to see DD that evening (he usually comes, plays with her and gives her a bath while I get some dinner/tidy/wash up). He had to go straight to bed (it was 4:30pm)
He was in work again today, but again a text after work to say that his headache was back and he had already gone home to bed, so wouldn't be coming around again.
I feel so sorry for DD as she loves her time with her dad and as she gets older she might be hurt by this. No mention of the fact that I haven't had dinner for the past two nights (DD is clingy when on her own with me, teething, and doesn't go to bed until 9pm most nights)
I guess at the end of the day, he is the one missing out at the moment, but soon it will be her too.
For the record, when he has a headache, he just goes to bed, doesn't try taking anything or drinking plenty, just goes straight to bed. If I suggest he come round and I'll get him some Hedex or a Cool'n'Sooth strip (I suffer from occasional migraines) he just ignores my messages....
Urgh, rant over sorry!
Thanks for listening
x