he is working long hours for their business but it feels im alone on my own alot with the children, he is doing it for the future and I understand and I love him for all he does, he is a good provider but I wa smeant to go out tonight for a friends very important bday we did not get a babysitter becuase he did not want them to be with another we had one last week.
I said I was not going out I was not feeling so great plus we spent alot of money this week he says can I go to a party,he forgot he was meant to babysit for dc tonight and I said shows you dont listen go and Ill see you later..
Came home from work kids have been looked after no hot dinner, he is in bed and I have to sort out kids who have nbeen ill drop him off come back lost my temper with neighbour who's bday I was meant to go a friend of theirs was parked in my space when I came back kids crying grumpy in car this has happended four times in 2 weeks.
I lost it hardly spoke but you could tell I was mad, I have argued with parents saying you never help and told partner we need to talk aibu.please help me I really need your advice.