you get their message 45 minutes later and ring them back, they should not then switch the goddamn phone off on you??? My 'friend' only rings me when she wants something. Be it help, support, a shoulder to cry on, someone to rant to - she actually has no idea about my issues, my life or anything related to it, because she's never asked and she never contacts me unless it's to rant about something to do with her.
She messaged me wanting my financial advice - presumably she is now doing something better than that and doesn't wish to talk about money any more, so doesn't need to speak to me, so won't bother.
I feel really used sometimes.