My husband just called to say they have had some kind of computer based disaster and he would be late home (he normally gets home about 7:00-7:30) he has no idea how late just late as they need to fix it tonight.
He then said "oh and I will probably have a guest with me". One of the other guys who works there gets the train quite a long way to work and would likely miss the last train if he stayed late.
Now normally I would probably have said ok BUT today is just awful timing! I had to run up to the school to get my daughter at lunch time as she has suddenly developed a high temp, awful cough and sore throat she has been crying and wanting to be hugged most of the afternoon. The house is a TIP because I started some reorganization and decorating this morning before the school called which I havent been able to finish because of my daughter being ill. We dont have a spare bedroom so the sofa bed is in the playroom, for him to sleep on it I would have to tidy up and clear the room to pull it out. He also seemed to expect me to whip up a meal a meal for everyone.I told my husband he would have to stay somewhere else either at someone elses or a bed and breakfast. My actual words were "no way is that happening".
but now I feel unreasonable - was I being unreasonable?