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To want my tounge pierced?

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monkeyfacegrace · 31/01/2010 18:52

Im 23, a mum of two, and im beginning to feel ever so slightly too old for my age and want to rebel a bit!
I really want my tounge pierced, and no Im not a chav, so what do you all think? Are they going to hit my artery causing death by bleeding? Ahhh Im such a hypercondriac!

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ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 31/01/2010 20:48

It's perfectly safe but having a piercing isn't really rebelling. Why not get a funky new haircut or new clothes or something? I had mine pierced at 18 and by 23 thought it looked a bit stupid. I don't like the look at all now, and I think that people who believe that piercings are any kind of 'statement' are a bit immature...like I was at 18...

monkeyfacegrace · 31/01/2010 21:06

Thanks all for your imput.

Im not really doing it as a statement or to be individual, Ive only ever had my ears done, and have two small tats, so am quite tame really.

New haircut or clothes happen every week (I work in fashion), so that isnt an option.

I guess I dont really know why I want it done, I feel like since my controlling exH left (albeit 2yrs ago!), Ive always had to ask someone else permission for anything!

Id never heard of chipped teeth as being a problem? But saying that, Ive only ever seen one person with it done and I havent asked them much about it.

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StrictlyKatty · 31/01/2010 21:29

monkey if you can survive the birth of 2 children I think you can manage one little piercing

ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 31/01/2010 22:10

Yes my front teeth were chipped. It's really bad for your teeth!

cornflakegirl · 31/01/2010 22:13

I had my tongue pierced when I was 21. Only left it in for a few months, as the novelty wore off, and I was worried about damaging my teeth - I used to rub the end against my lower teeth a lot, and even with a plastic end I figured that wasn't a good plan. When I took the bar out, it healed over, but I still have a little flap on the top of my tongue where it used to be - it's been out for 10 years, so I figure it's probably not going away.

How about a belly button piercing instead? No-one ever sees mine - far too flabby - but I still like having it.

Trickle · 01/02/2010 21:52

If the spelling stuff was aimed at me I just spent 5 mins looking to see the diff and I can't - the baby is stealing my braincells and making my dyslexia even worse than usual - apologies

numbing stuff (all attempts at spelling anethesia have failed ) ick - noooo slows healing process. Then again I like the natural high you get after being pierced so each to their own.

thesecondcoming · 01/02/2010 22:20

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GochaGocha · 01/02/2010 23:31

OK sorry but I am so going to be sooo boring and sound like someone's Mum here but, uh, I guess I am ... so here goes.

It's not like any other piercing because it is in your mouth.

To start 86 pinkle is right -- having that metal in your mouth will damage tooth enamel, esp on the backs/edges of your upper incisors (the ones at the front).

Every time you speak, think about where the middle of the front of your tongue goes. Try and say 'this' without putting the middle of your tongue under the top front teeth. Then think about how many times a day you do that.

That means you will in the future be very likely to need crowns, which are expensive and need to be repaired (not covered by NHS). Apparently the plastic ones do this too. You may also lose some gum tissue and your teeth can fall out. Or breathe in the jewellery and need surgery to remove it.

But that is when it's healed. The scary stuff is while it's healing.

If you want to do it ... do it with your eyes open. The nasty complications of a tongue piercing going wrong are not that common but they are really, really nasty. And the damage is often permanent. Don't just ask us, ask a dentist. By all means absolutely read this.

Mine did tell me a grim tale about a recent case where the bar got embedded and had to be dug out in hospital under a general along with a bit of her tongue. Nice.

Your mouth is full of bacterial nasties -- think about your breath in the morning? The problem is that the wound from a piercing is so deep and complete that the takes a long time to heal. During that time you basically have an open wound, bathed in bacteria-rich saliva and with food getting lodged in there.

It's in a part of your body which is rich in blood vessels to carry all that far and wide. At best there is a substantial risk of infection. At worst, it carries a risk of systemic infection [blood poinsoning, brain abcesses anyone?] and deaths have been reported.

But hey that probably won't happen

jasper · 01/02/2010 23:47

I am a dentist and have seen some nasty piercing related injuries.

I would advise against it.

Gocha, really well explained. Can I print it out and make a leaflet for my patients?

darksideofthemooncup · 02/02/2010 00:51

I had mine in for ten years and can concur that it is really bad for your teeth. In fact I have lost two lower back teeth (either side of my jaw iyswim) as I cracked them through crunching on it when eating. It has cost a lot more than the twenty quid I spent on the original piercing in implants and crowns!
And despite it being 15 years since I had it done I can still remember how painful it was.

differentnameforthis · 02/02/2010 01:20

Chipped teeth are a problem, because it is the enamel that chips off. Once that has gone the tooth is weaker (the layer under enamel is dentine) and dentine is much more susceptible to decay causing bacteria.

Also, tongue piercings can cause something called Ludwig's Angina. Rare, but it happens!

GochaGocha · 02/02/2010 09:02

I defer to your superior expertise, jasper. I was waiting for a dentist [puts down Hello! magazine]

OMG DarkSide I am thinking about chomping down on a tongue stud and . That must have been ghastly!

Bella32 · 02/02/2010 09:41

Eeeeewwwww!

Gross!

Sorry, but gross!

Why not spend the money on making yourself look more attractive, not less?

ChippingIn · 02/02/2010 10:23

MFG - I would like to have mine done too - not because of the way it looks, as I'm not too keen on that, but because I'm a fiddler/chewer (tried to think of another way to say that but couldn't!! LOL) and I would enjoy having it there to 'play' with... however, I have had enough work done at the dentist anyway and figured I didn't need to make my teeth any worse

Mind you, the person that said it worked for her as a weight loss plan has me re-thinking...... (but only until I glance at the last dental bill )

midori1999 · 02/02/2010 10:33

Since it doesn't matter what others think, if you want it done, get it done. I had mine done when I was 27 but took it out two years ago aged 31 for an op, was in such agony afterwards I couldn't put it back in, when I tried it had closed up and there is no way I am having it done again.

The piercing itself didn't hurt, but it did afterwards, agony for a couple of hours and my friend thought I was going to pass out. It sadly didn't stop me eating though.

It hasn't damaged my teeth, but I didn't have it in for that long, I suppose.

monkeyfacegrace · 02/02/2010 11:31

Well I did it! I know know know its potentially bad etc, and while I have not ignored the warnings, I have weighed it all up.

I dont drink (bar the odd glass of wine, Im not a binger like many others my age), I have given up my 40 a day fag habit 6 months ago and have never looked back, and Im a healthy weight and go to a gym so my fitness is good.

Soooo... Im kinda trying to justify it by thinking that I need to do something risky in my little life

And no it didnt hurt a bit, more like a pressure when the catheter goes through the tongue. Its been 24 hours now, and I still cant sodding eat though, it kills!

Ive had it quite far back in my tongue, so it hasnt touched any teeth at all yet, and Ive been gossiping none stop. But still have a stupid lisp though!

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ChippingIn · 02/02/2010 11:43

Oooh I'm a bit ... so tempting.....

Casmama · 02/02/2010 15:30

Ah well good for you - you wanted it, so you got it. From what I remember the swelling was at its worst from about day two till about day four. Hope it heals nice and quickly for you.

nigelslaterfan · 02/02/2010 15:48

my ds's teacher has a pierced tounge.

It's all wrong imho. It just gives you a speech impediment
why would anyone want to give themselves a speech impediment in a society where communication is so important?

jofeb04 · 02/02/2010 16:16

Monkeyface,

I've got mine done. Eat lots of ice-cream and lollies to help the swelling go down.

The lisp should go, I know many people with it, and none of us has a lisp (or any other issue with speech).

monkeyfacegrace · 03/02/2010 21:36

Owww it hurts

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