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to have grabbed my lightbulbs and got out of Wilkinsons as fast as I could???

28 replies

ToccataAndFudge · 31/01/2010 17:15

and also to have grassed them up??

Popped to town with DS1, and needed bin bags from Wilkinsons, was just thinking that was all I needed in there when I heard a smash as we walked past the end of an aisle.

Turned round to see that a middle aged man and an elderly woman had managed to drop some light bulbs on the floor and remember I needed some of those too. As them accidentaly smashig the lighb ulbs had helped me to remember I said jokingl to them that they'd reminded me and thank you.

They said the box was open at the bottom (didn't care really lol) and that was the end of the conversation.

BUT it was the next bit that made me and a bit too.

As I was looking for the bulbs I needed they both used their foot to sort semi sweep the shattered glass towards the bottom of the shelves (they're solid to the ground so can't brush anything underneath) and then the man said

"oh just leave it the cleaning lady or someone will clean it up" - and wandered off to do the rest of their shopping.

So there were tiny shards of glass (very hard to see on the flooring they have in there - I could only spot them as I knew they were there) all over the floor and they just left it.

I dragged DS1 off to find an assistant and told her someone had smashed a lightbulb by accident and that it needed cleaning up (and repeated what they'd said about the "cleaning lady or someone").

She was lovely and thanked me for telling her - and said "cleaning lady - more like any old mug that finds it first". She came with me back to the aisle (I still hadn't got my bulbs) and she asked me if I knew which way they'd gone "ermmmmmmmmmm that way" and she went off to find them.

Then I spotted the rest of the broken bulb on the central shelf - just sat there - perfect child height, and even if not a danger to children would have been easy to grab to the boxes behind it without noticing it and cut yourself. I was .

They appeared further down the same line of aisles but nearer the front of the shop, and she went straight to them (interesting as they weren't the only couple that fitted the descriptioin in the shop).

At which point I grabbed my bulbs, went round the top end of the aisle and walked very quickly to the checkouts, and then panicked when the queue went slowly and I turned round and they were coming to the same checkout with their shopping.

I paid for my shopping and DS1 and I walked very quickly without turning round out of the shopping centre.

I guess I was worried about them causing a potential huge fuss in front of DS1 (as it would have been obvious it was me that said something as we were the only people in the aisle at the time) . If I'd have been on my own I would have stuck around I think, regardless of what their reaction would have been.

So was I BU to grass 'em up for leaving the glass on the floor without telling someone

and was I BU to leg it out of the shop as quick as I could get DS1 to walk without making him wonder WTF was going on?

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AuntieMaggie · 31/01/2010 17:18

nope not at all

Dirtgirl · 31/01/2010 17:19

You weren't being unreasonable to report broken glass. Grassing them up not that bad a crime IMO. And I would have fled too in those circumstances.

ToccataAndFudge · 31/01/2010 17:20

and actually there's a 3rd AIBU (most important)

AIBU to have thought of starting this thread as soon as they walked off and I went and grassed on them

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OldLadyKnowsNothing · 31/01/2010 17:21

YANBU, and I don't think you even "grassed them up" - accidents happen in shops.

ToccataAndFudge · 31/01/2010 17:21

well she did ask what they looked like and which way they went............so I was only answering her questions truthfully

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Chillohippi · 31/01/2010 17:39

YOu were right to point out a hazard that needed dealing with. And yes, you only answered her questions, so don't worry about grassing them up. It's not like they'll be arrested for it.

Tee2072 · 31/01/2010 17:44

I do have to ask...did you remember the bin bags as well?

ToccataAndFudge · 31/01/2010 17:51

oh yes I did get my bin bags - I'd already got them and was just doing my usual "wander round the rest of the shop to see if there's any bargains" when I was reminded about the bulbs

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MilkNoSugarPlease · 31/01/2010 17:54

YANBU i would have!

was it the wood green one? i was in there today and heard lightbubs go smash!

tis a bizarre coincedence if not!

ToccataAndFudge · 31/01/2010 17:57

no - just a bizarre co-incidence - miles from Wood Green

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JamesAndTheGiantBanana · 31/01/2010 17:58

It's not on, is it? I wouldn't care if it was playsand or whatever but can't understand people who would leave something like broken glass around for little ones (or anyone else) to hurt themselves on)

Saying this though, I'm a bit of a fusspot like that, I picked up and threw away an open safety pin I saw on the pavement the other day. Dp said "why?" and I actually had to explain that a child might fall on it or something (it's icy, too)

Some people just don't care.

MilkNoSugarPlease · 31/01/2010 18:11

Ooh bizzare! or wilkos bulbs just jump of shelves!

was in EARLY LEARNING CENTRE(!) other week and this woman was opening a bottle of parecetamol (had the blue strip bit) and as she opened it a bunch of them flew out, she just walked away! i went and got someone who cleared them up but ffs this is paracetamol in a kids toy shop!!

EdgarAllenSnow · 31/01/2010 18:18

every minute spent in wilkos is a minute too long.

YANBU in telling the cleaner...though lightbulbs don't half break easily in those silly thin boxes.

Fizzylemonade · 31/01/2010 18:19

YANBU

Someone dropped a can of paint in B&Q and just walked off, my Dh caught up with them and they clearly thought he was going to ask them to report it as there was paint everywhere in the aisle, but he was merely pointing out to them that they both had huge amounts of paint splatted all up their trousers

I went off to report it.

Two4One · 31/01/2010 18:25

For the brief amount of thought that this ridiculous situation required... you were not being unreasonable.

But why this has upset you so much and prompted you to start the longest, most rambling thread about a trivial matter I have read on here for a long time... I don't know.

ToccataAndFudge · 31/01/2010 18:30

I'll have you know Two4One - that this incident happened at 2pm and I was waiting to ask AIBU since then - I had to go and do my weekly shop before I could. I haven't started an AIBU for ages

(oh and my threads/posts are always long and rambling and about trivial matters )

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Tee2072 · 31/01/2010 18:31

Everyone got that? Please ask two4one's permission from now on before starting any thread as it must meet her approval.

FFS. Get over yourself.

Chillohippi · 31/01/2010 18:33
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kinnies · 31/01/2010 18:37

YANBU
I would have done the same!

ToccataAndFudge · 31/01/2010 18:40

Tee - you know what I'm getting the urge to start another (equally waffly - what else from me ) aIBU

AIBU to ramble on as much as I like on trivial matters, so long as I use paragraphs.

or perhaps AIBU to not give a shit if others think I ramble on

or maybe AIBU to actually start an AIBU that not something totally controversial and perhaps even a little bit of lightheartedness in it

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crankytwanky · 31/01/2010 18:41

Nah YANBU.

FWIW, I find myself listening to an incessant internal voice asking "AIBU?"

It's become like a mantra.

JaneS · 31/01/2010 19:51

I would have done the same. Leaving broken glass around is not on - it's not just a child hazard, it's a hazard for anyone partially sighted, too.

ktbeau · 31/01/2010 20:00

What happened to . . .
"the rest of the broken bulb on the central shelf - just sat there - perfect child height, and even if not a danger to children would have been easy to grab to the boxes behind it without noticing it and cut yourself."?

Did you point it out or move it before you left?

If you left it there YABU

If you removed the danger YANBU

ToccataAndFudge · 31/01/2010 20:03

oh - no she took that before she asked me who it was/where they'd gone.

I'd forgotten to put it in so went back to add it and put it in the wrong place

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ktbeau · 01/02/2010 19:43

Thought it sounded like you had but wasn't clear

YANBU!!!