My, partner (now ex, as it has been the final straw) and I were together just over a year. Things were getting progressively worse, mainly because he didnt seem to want to sleep with me and if we did it had to be a certain way, no condom (I know, I know) and he often wouldnt have an orgasm, blaming drink, needing a wee, hurting willy- I heard them all. But, he was nice in other ways, nice to my kids, helped around the house, bought me flowers...
On thurs, I am going to hospital to have a breast lump looked at. I am really upset and keep thinking what would happen to my 2 kids (5 and 3). I asked him if he would come over this weekend (just need a hug and a cup of tea made for me) and, what a surprise, he has a cold. Eventually he said he'd come but not to expect anything of him. He made it so bloody difficult that I ended the relationship. Just don't have the energy to be rejected anymore. Not the first time he's had a 'cold' when I have been unwell either. He said, when I found the breast lump, he'd be there no matter what. He fell at the first hurdle. He only had to sit on a train fgs. We could have looked after each other.