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To be pissed off that dh won't have sex with me at 9 months pregnant!

32 replies

Thandeka · 30/01/2010 07:08

I even want to which I know is unusual for this stage (39weeks) but he ain't budging, but grrrr he got me into this he should help get me out of it right? We managed to a couple of weeks ago no probs but time before that bub kicked him hard which freaked him out so now he is refusing and it's a bit hard to try and seduce him when every movement across the bed takes twice as long and involves grunting! But grrrrr I want this baby out now and think he needs to play his part in "operation get baby out". Oh and have to add he refused to give me a foot rub the other night because "he doesn't like feet", I did point out I don't like pregnancy labour or birth but it didn't work! Refusals of both the sex and the foot rub have left me feeling rejected and in tears. Harumph! Men!

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Kevlarhead · 30/01/2010 23:56

Speaking as a bloke, there's nothing less sexy than wondering if you're taken your offspring's eye out...

cece · 31/01/2010 00:02

Tell him you probably won't be in the mood/have the enrgy for weeks... maybe months, so it may be his last chance for a while

jasper · 31/01/2010 00:12

Ah, I do smile at the things that are meant to bring on labour - sex , curry, rasperry leaf tea. walking up a hill.....

noone tries these things till their baby is due, and then the baby comes .......because it is DUE

YAB a bit unreasonable. It can't be too sexy for him for you to request sex to help the baby out. But I do understand why you would try anything

jasper · 31/01/2010 00:13

my dh would not have sex for whole 9m x 3 and would not even touch my tummy

Mumcentreplus · 31/01/2010 02:57

Men are strange creatures...before pregnancy some spend the whole time worrying if their cock is big enough to satisfy... as soon as the woman gets pregnant the cock suddenly becomes so big it can miraculously pass through the cervix and poke your baby in the eye!

ElenorRigby · 31/01/2010 08:50

"Speaking as a bloke, there's nothing less sexy than wondering if you're taken your offspring's eye out..."
Lol spot on Kevlar, DP is bed beside me wincing at the thought of sex at 39 weeks and foot rubs, the poor love dosent like feet either!

diddl · 31/01/2010 08:53

Do men realise that the cervix is closed & they are no where near the baby?

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