Ok, a few moths ago at Nursery my child (3.5) came home from Nursery saying the word CLIT and that he knew where on the female body where it was.
Me and dh were quite surprised, and asked who taught him that, he said a boy in his class.
I didn't want to make a big deal out of it, as children pick up things from school, but wanted to let the teachers know what was being discussed in Nursery.
So told teacher and she said did DC say who it was, I said Yes, BUT! as we know what children are like, I dont want to say for definite.
Anyway when taking DC into Nursery the next day, the teacher had pulled the child's parents up in the cloakroom, and I had overheard her say Oh I dont thing your son has said this, but it has come to my attention and I thought due to the nature of it, you needed yo be aware.
Anyway parent kicked off and said it was categorically was not her son .
Their was a bit of a you ha, where things were said by the other parent, and me and dh went to the head (she knew it was me, as I was discussing it in DC2 baby group, and she has a friend their, unbeknown to be) and said its DC1 name mummy. so she game over and got quite verbal, and I had to walk away, saying I never SAID it was your son, I said my son said it was your son! and I told the teacher you know what kids are like.
Anyway head took the child's parent in to have a word and that if it was her child, you could be concerned also, and that Me, was only bringing it to the Nursery's attention, due to the nature of it, and that she will not allow me to be verbally attacked in school premises or elsewhere for that matter.
so due to this, the parent has now what I can only assume has gave me a reputation, (as before I got along with most child's parents and we had lunch dates etc) still do with some, but not all.
But DC has been coming home very upset, as the ones who dont speak to me, children's, have been saying that he is not going to their party and that my mummies going to batter your mummy.
Now I dont want to go to the head/teacher again over it, I also dont want to confront the parents, as I dont want all the bother again, but ds is very upset as its happening everyday at Nursery and hes also upset as he things these children dont like him because of me, and hes now missing out with his friends at the parties.
But I have to explain to ds that not everyone gets invited to a party and that sometimes people are very silly, but I have to say this everyday now, as he gets upset and his Nursery teacher has said he has been quite withdrawn lately and is their anything to worry about, and I said No
I now wish I hadn't said anything to the Nursery.
Im also worried as he gets older in case he gets bullied by these children etc..
Sorry its long, just not sure what to do.