OP , you have said that much earlier in the thread but I do have to say something about it.
"Hundreds of women and children die each day in poverty stricken countries in the third world, many of which are have no real medical system, no educational esablishments to speak of.
If you saw those countries as a slow drip feed of devastation compared to the sudden onslaught in Haiti, would it be any different? Where do we draw the line?""
Have you got any knowlege of the history of Haiti? They do not only suffer know because of the earthquaque or even the hurricane they lived though in the recent years, they had decades of "crappy" governement (Pappa Doc, Baby Doc & Les Tontons macoutes are just a few key words you could google to have a general idea))
Since the Father Aristide fiaso (another one you can google), Haiti pretty much does not have a gouvernement either. There is no organised police or fire services, school system...
Morst official organisation of the country is dealt with by UN (this is why there is a high number of UN personel in Haiti)
I am ,as most people, fully aware that there is a awfull lot of countries with their fair share of misery but at the moment, I struggle to understand your op as Haiti has gone through it all : natural catastrophies as well as slow drip feed, to use your own expression.
Does not matter how less "well off" we are this year compared to the last, it does not in the slightest compare with what people in Haiti have lived trough in the past and have to cope with today!