DH was made redundant before Christmas. I have recently been on maternity leave but have got a freelance contract for 1 day a week.
We are currently living off our savings (which we have a lot of as we are renting and looking to buy a house).
DH goes to a sporting event with his friends every year. It's about a 5 day trip from beginning to end. It's not luxurious but does involve ferry, overnight stays in B&Bs, tickets and camping.
He has spent the last 2 days excitedly ringing his brother and his mate organising it all and booking it all up.
AIBU to think that this shouldn't be a priority if he hasn't got a job. He has had lots of interviews so it's more than likely that he will have one before he has to pay the bulk of it but I'm just pissed off. Noone has mentioned our family holiday yet and I was bracing myself for not having one this year as money would be tight.
He has already had to take money out of our savings to pay off his credit card.
When I told him I thought he should get his priorities straight - he just went on about how he paid for the holiday when I was on maternity leave (and therefore not earning) last time and how all his friends' wives don't mind. But that was our family holiday and we could afford it at the time.
I countered that all his friends had jobs (bit insensitive I know) and he has stormed out saying I'm being unsupportive.
I'm not a harridan am I?