I know that Im probably just being silly or being a bit hormonal with PMS, but just after Christmas my DH asked what I would prefer for my 30th birthday, tickets to a show that I really want to see or another gift that I had being eyeing up. I plumped for the tickets as I can get the other gift anytime really but this show's only on for one night. He said ok. Previous to this we had agreed to go away for the weekend, we had been meaning to for a while and because my birthday fell at the weekend we decided to combine this and travel on my birthday. We were both tired from the long journey and so decided not to go out for a nice romantic dinner and instead a quick bite to eat and an early night. A friend of mine who is going to this show was talking about it today and so I emailed my DH to ask if we were still going and he said no, he had forgotten all about it and as we are still awaiting payday (we get paid monthly and for some reason got our end of decemnber pay on the 18th) and we have had xmas, new year and a weekend away (which we both paid for really) he's not sure we can afford to go now. I know deep down Im probably being unreasonable after all if we cant afford it we cant afford it, I just feel disappointed that this essentially means I have had nothing from my DH for my 30th birthday.