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To expect people NOT to block my drive? and to ask them to move?

36 replies

Triggles · 12/01/2010 11:35

The neighbours are getting their windows cleaned by a service. The van parked in front of our drive, blocking our car. All the way up and down the street, there is only ONE other car parked on the street, so there is no shortage of places to park. WHY do they block my drive?? And they saw my car, as they were leaning on their van having a cigarette, talking, facing my car before they started setting up for the job.

At present, I have nowhere that I need to go. But they don't know that, do they? And if I DO have to go somewhere suddenly, I would need to go find them, interrupt them mid-job, and get them to move their vehicle out of the way so I can get my car out. It's just so inconsiderate.

So I went outside and asked them (politely, I might add) to please move their van so that it was not blocking my drive. They then asked me if I was planning on going anywhere. Does it matter? Obviously the possibility is there, or I wouldn't have asked them to move. So I told them I might need to leave in a bit and didn't want to have to interrupt them when they were in the middle of their job, therefore it was easier if they just moved now, before they started. (I didn't even rant about how inconsiderate it was to block a drive, especially when it wasn't necessary - although I really wanted to!)

But they did act a bit like I was being unreasonable. I don't think I was BU. I was polite when I asked them and said thank you politely when they agreed to move it, even though they were rather grudging about it.

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LillianGish · 12/01/2010 15:14

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Coldhands · 12/01/2010 19:29

YANBU, we used to get this when we lived near a shop and a school. Everyone would use our drive to park over 'just for 5 minutes', but when it is all day everyday, it is not just for 5 minutes. Once I had a hospital appointment and had to run around the bloody shop trying to find out whose car it was. Another time it was an ignorant cow who shouted at me when she parked across my drive, I told her she shouldn't park there as she was blocking us and in an emergency, we wouldn't be able to get out. This woman actually said she phoned the council and asked them if she was allowed to park there (yeah right). Although funnily enough she didn't park there again even though 'she was allowed to'.

Parmageddon · 12/01/2010 19:34

Happens to us too. As I have disabled dd2, I am thinking of applying for a disabled space outside our house (we don't have a drive but people double park and block me in). Not sure this would help much but at least I'd be doing something!

lucky1979 · 12/01/2010 19:52

The guys who do maintanence for our letting agency were telling me about one of the other properties they work on, near the city centre, has a driveway, and they were having massive issues as the same car "stole" the driveway EVERY DAY. Just parked up and presumably went to work. They'd tried to catch him and basically he took the attitude of, it's not illegal you can't stop me. They called the police who said, unfortunately, it's not illegal and if you move/damage the car the owner of the car can sue you for criminal damage.

What the police suggested however is putting up one of those collapsable posts to block in the driveway. And, off the record, they pointed out that if they put one in quickly while the guy was parked there, effectively locking him in then there was nothing he could do about it, and if he damaged the post forcing his car out they could do HIM for criminal damage.

They left it 3 days before they let him have his car back. Served him right!

chickydee · 12/01/2010 20:33

I came home last week, after dashing to asda to panic buy 76 loafs of bread , to find a car parked ON my drive!!
I live ona narrow road and this car has been parked on the road a few times, effectively blocking it, but this took the biscuit.
I knew who it was,the old cow next door has regular carers visiting and it was one of them, but the bloody cheek to park ON my drive!!!
I parked my car behind her, across my drive, took my shopping in, locked the door,put music on loud and ognored her
Very petty I know, but she pissed me off, again!

Ripeberry · 12/01/2010 20:41

What would you have done if you had been out and wanted to park up on your drive and they were parked accross it.
Legally, you would not have a leg to stand on as it's not against the law to block a drive when there is no car on it.
The law is an ass

Mibby · 12/01/2010 20:49

We get this fairly often, our road has plenty of parking bays and spaces but we still end up with idiots parked straight across the end of the drive.
DH is in the Retained Fire Service so has to literally drop everything and go to the station the second his beeper goes off but the number of people who say 'well if it goes off come and get me and i'll come back and move' is amazing.
He has less than 5 mins from his beeper going off to drive to the station, grab his kit and get on the truck. Why dont they understand this is NOT long enough for me to get them from several houses away for them to move their stupid car which shouldn't be there in the first place

cat64 · 12/01/2010 21:11

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Jux · 12/01/2010 21:20

We live next door to a shop. Customers park across our drive all the time. If we ask them to move they often argue - or ask where we're going fgs!

One woman drove right into our drive and parked there. I ran out and told her to move her car, but she ARGUED with me. I couldn't believe it. The shop was closed at the time, as well.

Now that we know we're not going to have to rush mum to hospital we're a little more laid back about parking across the drive, but it's bloody annoying.

Jux · 12/01/2010 21:25

Funnily enough, a parking warden told us it's not illegal to block us in, but it is illegal to block us out.

StayingDavidTennantsGirl · 12/01/2010 22:57

Chickydee - it could be worse - where I used to live, there was a disabled lady two doors down who had carers in several times a day. One night they arrived and couldn't find anywhere to park, so went over the kerb at the junction with a sideroad, and parked right across the pavement!!!

We knew the disabled neighbour, so asked her to have a word with the agency - and she was pretty about what her carers had done.

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