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AIBU?

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to think BIL was a twat

41 replies

biggirlsdontcry · 09/01/2010 17:10

BIL came over to visit yesterday , he can be a twat at the best of times , recent examples are = his ds is more special than our dc's because he was an IVF baby & our dc's were conceived naturally
he asked what school we are enrolling dd in for September & i told him that she will be going to a mixed school = boys & girls
to which he asked " will i be sending her in with condoms in her lunch box"
dd has just turned four last week , AIBU or is that just a weird & horrible thing for him to say , oh & he didn't laugh when he said it so it wasn't a joke .

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shockers · 09/01/2010 18:02

What sort of school does his child go to?

TheRoyalty · 09/01/2010 18:02

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juneybean · 09/01/2010 18:06

WTF she's 4 for crying out loud!

biggirlsdontcry · 09/01/2010 18:08

no he is sent out of his house with his ds every weekend so his wife can have a lie in , therefore goes visiting ,
his ds in is a mixed pre-school atm as is my dd , his ds will be attending an all boys school in September , but only because that's the only school within walking distance for them .
BIL is DH brother ,

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biggirlsdontcry · 09/01/2010 18:25

thanks theroyalty , i don't think he would have said the condoms remark in front of dh , but if he ever makes inappropriate comments in the future ill show him the bloody door ,

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MrsSawdust · 09/01/2010 18:27

Urgh that's a foul thing to say. Did he react to you reaction? Did your dh react?

biggirlsdontcry · 09/01/2010 18:35

my dh was in work yesterday when BIL popped in , so it was just me & my dc's here , no he just changed the subject after i said " that's disgusting " but it made me feel very uncomfortable with him after he said that , its just Such an inappropriate thing to say about a child ,

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MadamDeathstare · 09/01/2010 18:42

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AnyFucker · 09/01/2010 18:44

he "pops in" ?

stop answering your door...

biggirlsdontcry · 09/01/2010 18:52

luckily the dc's were in the sitting room playing happily & i don't think they heard him ,
anyfucker i wish i could , the minute the doorbell rings my dc's charge as they each want to be the one who gets to open the bloody door , no such luck pretending to be out in my house ,

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AnyFucker · 09/01/2010 18:54

tie them up and gag them

remove the doorbell

there is a solution...

DorindaG · 09/01/2010 18:55

Why does he keep popping round? Does he have a thing for you or something?
Maybe that's why he comes out with inappropriate, stupid comments.

Or maybe he's just a bit of a twat.

rainbowinthesky · 09/01/2010 18:58

Vile man.

biggirlsdontcry · 09/01/2010 18:59

anyfucker don't tempt me , with the schools not yet re-opening since before christmas i am very close to gagging them anyway
dorindag he's just a twat thankfully

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AnyFucker · 09/01/2010 19:06
Grin
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