We had a row last night. We were discussing something and it was getting a bit heated and he started to walk out, I aksed him to come back in the room but he insisted on standing at the door so I had to crane my head around to finish what I was saying to him. I asked him to come over where I could see him, he flounced in, threw his eyes up and then let loose some expletives and walked out.
He came in and apologised an hour later and I thought that was the end f it.
This morning before he left for work and before I was even up, half asleep he brought the whole thing up again. I am not good in the morning, I dont function until I have had a shower and cup of tea. So he brought this up and insisted on going over all this again so that "it wouldnt be hanging over him all day at work." I said it wasnt hanging over him 'cos he had apologised and that was the end of it. But then he said "well dont you think you were in the wrong too to talk to me like I was a 3 year old." I said, "well no actually I dont, cos that's not what I was doing at all."
He insisted I was as much in the wrong as him and that I should apologise. The thing is I don't see the point in apologising unless you think you have done something wrong, otherwise you are just apologising for the sake of it, just to appease the other person.
So I didnt do it, and in fact was so riled by then that I just told him to grow up and get over himself and he went off in a huff having said some very hurtful things on the way out.
AIBU not to apologise to him?