Been with my guy almost a year and until very recently he lived over in Preston....I'm in Leeds.
He closed the doors to his business and moved over and is staying with me "not officially moved in" as he doesn't want to spoil things (his words) but is staying...only he lives out of his suitcase. I created some space but hasn't used.
Not contributed anything as such although has bought food etc and babysits. I ended up paying one of his bills over a hundred which was not good especially with christmas. He said he would put the money back in my account etc but as yet hasn't. He's a forgetful guy and figured I would need to remind him several times. Doesn't feel good though.
Anyway he'd planned on christmas eve and christmas day with his folks down south and the rest of the time working in his pub. I was a little annoyed that he hadn't made room for me....I told him so on the 23rd he took the night off - although spent the night on the computer and phone as his mate is in a bit of trouble. I thought fair enough. He said he'd spend christmas eve with me.....he went out in the morning to do jobs for the pub (baring in mind if he was down south he wouldn't have been able to and someone else would've had to do it) He came back mid day and left after the kids went to bed to travel down to his folks.
He said he would make it up by spending boxind day afternoon with me as he needed to be back up to be in the pub tonight.
Yesterday he called in the morning briefly....I called him in he evening to see how day was going and see what time he'd be back up. He didn't answer....thought he must be busy...thought he'd call me back when could. I calle again about 10 this morning see what time etc...so could arrange my day.....he didn't pick up.
He called at 2 he'd just set off and would be back about 430ish but needed to be at the pub for 830 toight. I was mad and told him to stay at his pub that if he couldn't give me one full day over christmas then somethings not right.
Thats pretty much how we've left it
What do I do??