to want to tell him to shove his xmas pressie up his arse?? .......

[TLESinChristmasStockings]

DP and I have been rowing now for the best part of 2 days. he asks me today what i want for xmas and I say sod all from you. so he goes and buys me a new phone to which i want to say stick it you great big twat!!!!!!!!!!

I think you both need to calm down..have make up sex and appreciate that you can afford to give each other presants...just my humble opinion

*too much much red wine..can't spell Prezzies

Depends how big it is but you could probably be done for assault [fshock

Have a good old whinge here in AIBU, we'll listen!

YANBU to want to.

YABU to actually waste a good phone that way

Ahem.

u kinda are being unreasonable...sorry. if my partner got me a new phone for xmas i'd be really pleased that it was A- not some tacky underwear and B- that he had actually bought me something I need!

Tell him ur sorry(but only if u really are sorry!) and have a good old making up session lol

tell him to take it back

and get you something you can pawn.

Come onnnnn...have you (ahem) made up yet?

You know you want to

lmao no we haven't made up yet...he is trying his damndest to win me round but i am being stubborn upset still.
it was his fault anyway for being a twat.

he keeps trying to get me to be his friend grrrrrrr keep trying

so what's he done then?

ok so its 1st day of hols from work plans are we all go out for the day, he changes his mind. then off he goes shopping 4 hours later comes back asking me what is for tea, I tell him sod all.

he has been an arse since last night, he gets like this at xmas cos his sons don't wanna know him nor does his scabby mother.

wouldn't take ds1 to my mums, wouldnt help with ds2 cos he is on holiday...
where is my fucking holiday???

Ahhh no wonder you're pissed off then. Sorry to hear that. Can you go off somewhere with your friends and dcs?
I'm off to bed now but hope you get it sorted.

But it's not Christmas yet....he shoudl have kept it a suprise.

You will get nothing at this rate...and then you'll be sorry on Christmas mnorning.

It sounds like a pain, but I think he is really trying to make it up to you by going and getting you a phone! My DH always wants a list from me as he 'wouldn't know what to get me'. I think he put some thought into that. And it sounds like he is having trouble dealing with his family not seeing him, even if you do think his mother is 'scabby'. His sons not wanting to see him must be very hard. However he should look after his own child with you. So what if it is his holiday, being a parent means there is no such bloody thing! Why do some men just not get that!!

yabu, men all the same they enever have clue what to buy. xmas and bday pressie is the mission impossible. just tell him what you want, it saves phone stuck up his private, ykwm

Don't you really need a new phone though after your ds broke your other one a while back???

LMAO Morning Ladies

Well last night he sat here saying "would you like to set up your phone" errrr no we did make up hence the late morning today....

I know it must be hard his other 2 sons not wanting to know him/see him. But by the same token I think if he made an effort with the younger one (16 almost) he could turn it around. I have suggested sending him a present as a starting point and thats what caused it all in the first place. Oh hum....

ILT yes i do need a new one after ds1 (eventually admitted it last week!!!) broke mine. I just had the hump because he wouldn't help and I was hormonal exhausted yesterday.