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To have been offended by this comment on Twitter?

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TAFKAtheUrbanDryad · 19/12/2009 14:57

Someone I follow on Twitter (not a friend, a celebrity of sorts) posted last night, "They sell chocolate boobs in Brussels. Milk, dark and white. Was thinking of getting one of each an d pretending it was the Sugababes."

I felt very surprised by his comment and quite offended, although I'm not quite sure why. I think my overwhelming response was one of disappointment, as this is someone I really respect as a person and an artist, and I don't think he would've meant it in a racist way.

He has since apologised for it, and I genuinely don't think he intended to offend, but I'm left with a vague sense of unease, which is odd, because if I'm honest I'm still not 100% sure what offended me so much!

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MargeSimpsonMyAlterEgo · 19/12/2009 14:58

Never look up to people you don't know.

TAFKAtheUrbanDryad · 19/12/2009 15:02

Why not Marge? I respect him as an artist and a person, he comes across as very genuine and likeable. I accept that having "heroes" you don't know is likely to lead to feet of clay scenarios, but i still don't think that the comment was appropriate - given the public forum he was using and he must know that most of the people who follow him on there are fans.

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belgo · 19/12/2009 15:02

I've seen them on TV (the chocolate boobs that is). I'm not going to buy any. The whole idea of them isn't funny or imaginative, and a waste of decent Belgian chocolate.

nannynobnobs · 19/12/2009 15:06

I'm intrigued as to which celeb it was now!
YANBU, it's a bit of a coarse remark, quite Bernard Manning! And chocolate boobs/willies = never remotely funny.

brandybutterfly · 19/12/2009 15:08

YABU. Leave twitter well alone...

MargeSimpsonMyAlterEgo · 19/12/2009 15:15

OK, maybe not NEVER (Obama, Mandela, I have never met but do look up to) but very often when people are in the public eye they are not really themselves. Particularly perhaps artistic people?

TAFKAtheUrbanDryad · 19/12/2009 15:40

Yeah, I see what you're saying, and I sort of agree. I just think that even if he does think like that, he should keep it to himself on a public thing like Twitter!

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tinalane · 19/12/2009 16:23

Its a very childish joke, perhaps someone told it him & he thought it was funny.

I'd find it more disappointing, only mildly offensive in a way that young boys can be.

At least you know better what kind of person he is, so he's off the list now then?!

Like was said, I look up more to people I know, even if I like music from people I don't really know personally.

picmaestress · 19/12/2009 16:24

I think it's quite offensive, I was thrown by the reference to skin colour, but the offensiveness here is sexist, really. He sounds like a 14 year old.

DoesntChristmasDragOn · 19/12/2009 16:26

The person who's being offensive is whoever made the chocolate breasts in the first place.

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