She had grommets put in last week and when we visited for her outpatient appt the doctor sized her and gave me the order form for some silicone jobs so she can swim in the new year. They arrived yesterday (along with an invoice for 78 francs ) and a set of neoprene bands to keep them in place. I wrapped them and put them under the tree. My dh said it was cruel, but, they cost so much money I thought it was a good idea. So, AIBU?