Have been ill all weekend with a cold/flu. Husband works Friday night/all day Saturday. I work Monday-Friday so Sunday is the only full day we get together. He went to a Christening today at 12:00. When he told me he was going at the beginning of last week he said he'd only be there a few hours. It's for the child of someone he works with and I did ask if I was invited but he said he didn't think so - was a bit about that but I don't know this person and wouldn't have really wanted to go anyway - especially not now I feel so crap. Anyway, when he left this morning he said "I might be back later - depends on if I have a drink, although Simon is going so I probably will". Meaning that he would stay over at a friend's house. I told him he best come home and to bring me a take-away when he did!
Have just text to ask where he is (6 o'clock) and he said he's still out. Can't imagine that he's not had quite a few drinks in 6 hours and so is probably unable to drive now. Text him back to ask if he's likely to bring me any food or should I sort myself out and he said "prob get own food".
There is nothing to eat except some frozen garlic bread (not been to shops this weekend as feel so crap). Have no money in house so can't order take-away and feel far too rough to even get dressed and go to get money out.
So now I'm in a bad mood but I actually know I'm being unreasonable as:
- I'm mainly ill because I went out Friday night when already run down so made myself worse.
- He very rarely goes out without me
- If he was here I'd just be here lying on the sofa on MN and watching TV
- I don't actually want him here - just really want my Chinese!
So please tell me I'm being unreasonable before I reply to him with a really arsey text!