ok here goes.
dp has just woken up and said his mate had rung him inviting him out on a works do (a piss up round town) tonight and he was going whether I liked it or not.
I am so pissed off with this because its extremely short notice and he also has overnight contact with his two little girls every Sat night and he was going to call his ex up and let them all down so he could go out. I thought that was pretty disgusting myself and told him so.
We have had many many issues lately as he goes out toplay darts twice a week and comes in at 2 or 3 in the morning with no explanation as to where he has been, spending a lot of money which we can ill afford,
He went mad and said I was a bitch because I went on my works do last sat (which was a sit down buffet meal in one place with a live band and I only spent a tenner on soft drinks as I'm pg) That was the first time I'd been out in 6 months and I drove!
Then he said he would get his mother to baby sit which I do not as it isn't fair on her as she would have to sit for 5 children and she finds it difficult to cope all at once. His attitude is that he doesn't care as long as he goes out with his mates.
Is it me being a control freak because I've put my foot down or is it him being a twat, because he says I'm the bitch?