Last night I was chatting to a friend on Facebook when I got a notification saying that my (14 year old) niece has changed her profile picture and a thumbnail of said picture. Now, this picture was black and white and she had taken it herself in a mirror and she was wearing only a t shirt. now you couldnt see anything other than a lot of leg but it was very provocative and so when she started to chat to me I told her so. (we chat quite a bit on facebook as we live quite far apart now, though we always used to be really close). I told her that I thought posting half naked pictures of herself on the internet was a bad idea, to which she said that only her friends could see it, I then said that her friends list of most of her school, and as its a profile picture anyone who puts your name into facebook will be able to see it. Now, she has changed it (thank heaven), removed me from her friends list and left me a message saying she felt like I was picking on her and treating her like a child (when shes clearly an adult ) and she doesnt want to see me anymore. Now as we were really close as she grew up this last part hurts my feelings a bit, so do you think I over reacted by telling her that she shouldnt have put that picture there.