I have a 'friend' who is more a friend of my good friend. Have known her for years but not close - don't have each others' numbers for eg. She's very high maintenance. I like her in a lot of ways but she is very demanding - she spent a lot of our friend's bday going on about how crap I was for not being there when I had gone on her actual bday and had a good reason for not going out clubbing, she strongly believes she is always right and expects a hell of a lot from her friends, hence why she has few. But I do like her, she's just a lot to take.
Anyway, she is terminally single, because she does the same thing with men - expects far too much (loyalty, commitment, time, effort) too soon and is a diva if she doesn't get it. She never learns and would love a relationship and can't see what she is doing wrong.
Mutual friend has tried to explain but that caused a massive rift for ages.
Today her FB status reads (paraphrasing) 'First dates AArrgh why when someone says they like you do they not call you, then when they finally call you why do they get arsey when you slightly berate them?'
To which I put 'X sweetie love you dearly but nobody likes being berated even slightly xxx' and she has responded with this -
'Thanks Kat2907. Generally when I post things on facebook, I expect my friends to either take the piss (see above) or support me and rave gainst all those who have done me wrong, but thanks for your pearls of wisdom, they made me feel so much better when i'm down'
Mutual friend thinks I'm in for a long shitty msg later as she won't let it lie. But am I wrong? This woman needs to be told, no? You can't have a go at a guy you have been on one date with, for waiting too long to call, and expect him to stay interested? Mutual friend thinks it's quite funny but for my own sanity I should have stayed out of it.