He owns a retail premises and is in the recovery phase following divorce from his ex wife and business partner so is trying to keep his head above water and pay off the legal fees and so on. This I understand.
However, I seem to put in so much time and effort to helping him manage. I do the banking, help with chores in his house when I can even though I have my own house and 4 DC to look after - one of whom is our 18 week old DD. I look after his DC from first manage, feed them, have his first wife drop them with me when he is still at work and can't have them until later, look after them in the monings on Saturday after we have all stayed over, so that he can go into work for a while which often stretches to hours.
He does his bit here and there - will come back and cook us all breakfast for example.
But I feel the 'us' time gets shelved over and over agian and one week rolls into the next without us having any time.
He was supposed to come up after work tonight to see me and DD but was in work til 9pm so didn't make it. I had been to a meeting with a client on his behalf earlier in the day, taking DD with me, I did his banking and generally rush around like a blue arsed fly so I could help him but also sort out me, the DC and my house.
I spent all weekend from 5.30 am on Saturday working on a new side to the business and didn't take a penny. I've not invested in this financially but am the brains behind the whole thing and we really pulled it off but feel like it is onl;y just appreciated. He did thank me properly and has promised us a weekend away after xmas but I suspect soemthing else will crop up so this doesn't materialise.
It isn't like me to feel resentful but I think I do. AIBU to feel a bit like there is no reward to all this?