I'm really stressed, pregnant, hormonal, upset, etc tonight and I know I'm working a long day tomorrow with no break but there's nothing I can do about it because I'm hourly paid and can't turn down the money.
DH also has a lot of stress going on at the moment due to a health issue that is causing us a lot of worry.
When he got paid this month he didn't put any money in my account to cover half the mortgage or massive bills and debts because he wanted to spend it on xmas presents. Instead, it ended up getting frittered away on take aways and such likes and now we're skint. I will get paid next week and it will go on the mortgage, bills, etc.
So I will have no money for xmas. I've still got most people's presents to buy including DH's. DS is all sorted now but no one else is. DH wants an expensive (to us) coat. This is fine, he doesn't have a lot of stuff and it's really nice. However, it's occured to me that I'll have no money for presents so I said how am I meant to buy any?
He said 'oh just forget it, I won't have the coat', totally spat his dummy. I said 'I'm not being funny, I'm just saying, I won't have any money left after the bills have come out, so how am I meant to buy anything for anyone?' He said 'you can have my wage in a couple of weeks'. So I said 'well how will you buy any more presents?' and he said 'I just want to fucking cancel xmas this year we don't have any money and it's all just stress.' Conversation continued in this style going round in circles with him being all arsey about the coat and with him marching off to bed (well I told him to and he did).
I was meant to be going to bed early with him tonight to chill out, watch a dvd, drink hot chocci. He'd made me the hot chocci.
But I don't wanna go now because I'm too het up.
AIBU to not go?
It's petty but it's a big deal at this very second IYSWIM.