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MIL - Know when to SHUT UP

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Bathsheba · 23/11/2009 09:14

We were you at my MIL's for fortnightly torture Sunday Lunch yesterday. The girls had stayed with my DH when I went to church in the morning and they had a fantastic family activity/crafty time writing their latters to Santa

(I'm 32 weeks pg, needing to be organised for Christmas, and as they are 3 and 5 they can't really write their own letters so we help them write and they do lots and lots of decorations with glitter, stickers, sparkly things)....

So, they had a FANTASTIC time, DD1 was practising her writing and did all the writing on both letters and there was lots of decorating going on.

At lunch we were telling MIL this when she pipes up "Oh, did you know "they" aren't replying to santa letters this year - its because of child protection and paedophiles"...

Trying to salvage the situation (the DDs are sitting at the table as well), I did a "Well, I'm positive Santa will reply to the girls, he always does and their letters are so pretty.."

MIL however continues to dig...

"Oh no, it was in the papers, they definately aren't repling to santa letters this year"...

Fortunately we managed to very clumsily change the subject - I was at the point of being about to spill my drink everywhere to create a distraction.

I don't read newspapers - she reads The Sun and the Local daily, but I have no idea what story this was, where she has read it, what the ACTUAL details of the story are (she is renowned for getting the completely wrong end of the stick - her and her (now departed) DH once argued the Scottish Parliament had passed a law to say all dogs MUST have their tails docked when actually the law was banning tail docking not making it compulsory)....but surely there isn't a judge in the land that would send me down if I killed her....

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OooohWhatAFuss · 23/11/2009 09:16

He he he, no judge would convict you...

Bathsheba · 23/11/2009 09:16

I suspect it was this article....

www.pressandjournal.co.uk/Article.aspx/1491270

However we send the girls letters to a UK address run by the Post Office who ALWAYS reply...

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Bathsheba · 23/11/2009 09:16

Sorry

This article

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MyCatIsABiggerBastardThanYours · 23/11/2009 09:20

Ha ha (or should I so Ho ho). I am sure that you will have the full weight of the law behind you.

I didn't even know you could do this. I shall do some writing with DD now then (but to the PO of course).

MavisEnderby · 23/11/2009 09:21

Ah,MILs say some silly things sometimes don't they?

You have my sympathy.

I have spent the last 2 years being main carer for dp who has a long term chronic illness,my youngest dc is 3 with sn and learning difficulties,my oldest is in year 1.I work nights.

The other day MIL was on the phone to me and said something along the lines of "but you do sleep a lot during the day" ,well,yes,I have 4 hours when the carer is there after I have done a 12 hour nightshift!!!I don't know if she expects me to run on no sleep or something!!!

MIL's can be a bit barmy at times,IME!!!

neverknowinglyundercatered · 23/11/2009 09:22

Oooh, can you find out which one so I can make sure I get him/her in my trial...

The latest contribution:
So you've been told today (unexpectedly) you have to have a caesarean "well I think its the best thing - the children are always so much better looking".

So DS1, your kids, me - all butt ugly then...WTF

Bathsheba · 23/11/2009 09:23

MyCat

if you send a letter to

Santa Claus / Father Christmas,
REINDEERLAND,
SAN TA1

That is handled by the UK post office and they ALWAYS reply - its not a "personal" reply (they don't say specifics about the rpesents that have been asked for) but it comes back addressed to the child, and has a lot about being good and not naughty and how busy a time of year it is etc etc etc...

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StealthPolarBear · 23/11/2009 09:27

oooh Mavis that's annoying! did you say anything about her sleeping a lot at night? sounds like it would pass her by!

Mandy1966 · 23/11/2009 11:50

I have 2 boys aged 11 & 8,
I SO hope Im NOT like my MIL when girlfriends/partners/wives come along.

LaSoiDisantDame · 23/11/2009 11:55

Yanbu

She sounds like a loon!

ninedragons · 23/11/2009 12:06

Is she religious?

Tell her look, MIL, when you die, that's it. No afterlife, no playing with cherubs in the clouds. Lights out. The end.

So she knows how it feels to have one's cherished fantasies exploded.

LittleOneMum · 23/11/2009 13:19

Bathsheba

I'm a barrister. I do some criminal law. I'll defend you. And we'll get you off, no problems. Opt for a jury trial and we'll probably get YOU some compensation.

Blimey, MILs!!!!

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