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To spend £60 on a babysitter tonight so I can go to bed at 7pm?

21 replies

TheDevilWearsPrimark · 20/11/2009 09:29

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SausageRocket · 20/11/2009 09:31

not if you can afford it, no.

Can't you just ship them out to grandparents/sleepovers instead ? Helluva lot cheaper ?!

MayorNaze · 20/11/2009 09:32

can you not send the kids to bed early 1st and then go yourself?

TheDevilWearsPrimark · 20/11/2009 09:33

DS doesn't do early bedtimes. And sadly no local family and exH had them last night so can't ask him.

I might be able to call a favour in from a friend though...hmm.

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WingedVictory · 20/11/2009 09:51

What a nice idea. A shame it's so expensive...

TheDevilWearsPrimark · 20/11/2009 10:00

I've decided to just have an afternoon nap and invite a friend over for dinner so I have no excuse for feeling tired.

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MayorNaze · 20/11/2009 10:01

good for you. and good luck with the nap

TheDevilWearsPrimark · 20/11/2009 10:01

It is expensive but she's really good, I've been using her for ages.

I would feel a little silly telling her my plan though haha

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TheDevilWearsPrimark · 20/11/2009 10:02

I'll stick to the rules of not getting under the duvet and setting two different alarms. Got to pick the DC up at 3pm hehe

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seeker · 20/11/2009 10:02

£60 for an evenings baby sitting? Is there any special reason that it's so expensive?

TheDevilWearsPrimark · 20/11/2009 10:09

That's for an overnight stay. And I have to provide an evening meal and breakfast. Given DS has ASD and rarely sleeps before 10pm it's quite a bargain.

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sunnydelight · 20/11/2009 10:26

What price sanity? Enjoy.

MistergodthisisSal · 20/11/2009 10:48

Sounds like a brilliant idea to me! £60 for overnight stay is, although a lot of money, a very good deal.

LadyTeasmaid · 20/11/2009 11:10

Hey if thats what you want hun go for it. Happy mummys have happy kids! Enjoy your rest. xxxxx

Blondeshavemorefun · 20/11/2009 11:13

not silly at all

i have a family that uses me once a month or so to get a decent nights sleep

they have a 3yr who doesnt go to bed/stay in bed/sleep through the night - as well as a baby of 9mths who also doesnt sleep

i have said to mumt to get me in every night for 2weeks and i will re train the child - but she doesnt wasnt that

£60 is cheap for an all nighter - im double that!!

Mishy1234 · 20/11/2009 11:23

Sounds great, go for it!

upahill · 20/11/2009 11:30

£60.000!!!! £120!!!!! Flippin' heck!!

MistergodthisisSal · 20/11/2009 13:38

Yes, but remember, the person doing the all night babysitting is most likely going to be up most / a lot of the night (hence the need for a night nanny), so if you look at in on an hourly rate, it's not that much.

I've only had a night nanny once, and she was brilliant - if you have the money, I can think of worse things to spend it on.

caramelwaffle · 20/11/2009 13:43

YANBU - Enjoy a peaceful night.

upahill · 21/11/2009 11:29

HI The devil..... How did it go ? What did you do in the end?

mumoverseas · 21/11/2009 12:36

God I'd pay double that for 8 hours sleep.
I haven't had more than around 4 hours at night since I was pregnant with DD2 now 3. DS2 is now 9 months and shows no sign of sleeping for more than around 4 hours.
Was up at 4am this morning

Have no family left so no chance of shipping them off anywhere and am counting years til they can go to boarding school

Have a lovely pm/evening

startingagain · 21/11/2009 13:26

These night nannies....do they do it in their own home or the childs home? Sounds a good idea really....although expensive. I would have paid for that when mine were little

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