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to well up at this (plus your own welling up confessions please)

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hatwoman · 10/11/2009 20:18

I'm taking some Brownies to an old people's home to sing some carols and Christmas songs. dds and I have just been practising Winter Wonderland. for those of you not intimately acquainted with Winter Wonderland it's really quite a gorgeous 1930s song, with lovely instrumentals, about a young couple in love, gallivanting (innocently, of course) in the snow and then day dreaming about their future by the fire. and yep, I'm struggling to get through it...just thinking of my lovely dds and the other lovely Brownies singing and the lovely old people reminiscing...

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gallusbesom · 11/11/2009 18:48

"when she loved me" from Toy Story 2

"Doll on a music box" from Chitty Chitty Bang Bang (esp the added bit from Truly Scrumptious)

My Dog Skip has me in tears everytime I watch it.

Another vote for the end of Peepo when his daddy kisses him goodnight with his solider uniform on

The Happy Prince by Oscar Wilde read by Tim Curry

Claire de Lune

dinster · 11/11/2009 19:04

Another one for Little Women when Beth dies and she tells Jo that she's not scared to 'go before' and that all the time they were growing up and her sisters had such plans for the future, she never had such plans for herself and only just wanted to be at home.
So outrageously sentimental and it gets me every time.

madoldbat · 11/11/2009 19:07

Likewise Tears in Heaven, also Jeruselem, almost any mammal (human or otherwise). Probably easier to say what doesn't and don't have the excuse of being pregnant, more menopausal

shockers · 11/11/2009 19:08

I'm listening to Mike Harding on Radio 2 as I clear up after dinner... he's going to play "And the Band Played Waltzing Matilda". Get your tissues out girls

SprocketAndTubbs · 11/11/2009 19:09

When Bambi's mum dies

When a lorry full of cows, sheep or pigs drive through our town on their way to slaughter

When the rabbit is knocked down and killed in 'Watership Down'

When I was little, I used to sob my heart out at 'The Littlest Hobo', at the end, when Hobo couldn't stay with his new friends and had to keep on travelling (it had a really sad theme tune!!)

'Hero' by Enrique whats-his-face - very cheesy song but was playing on the radio as DS was born!

'You're the best thing' by the Style Council as I used to sing it to DS when he was tiny, as I realised I was going to be a single mum

Anything tragic on the news concerning children - I just don't know how a parent finds the strength to carry on without their child - even when their children have grown up

Pretty much everytime the wind changes direction - I'm such a wuss!!

Botbot · 11/11/2009 19:10

The sound of a brass band makes me start sobbing, for some reason .

Oh, and while I was saying my vows at my wedding on Saturday [shamelessly just wanting to mention my wedding there ]

hoops997 · 11/11/2009 19:12

I work in a crematorium and am always crying at random things, like the other day a widow went up to her husband of 75 years coffin and said 'don't worry darling I'll be with you soon' had me in floods..........also cried when a lady of 25 had committed sucide and her son of 6 put a rose on her coffin, he hadn't a clue what was going on......got tears in my eyes just thinking about it....

mehdismummy · 11/11/2009 19:20

i cried when i was told ds was person of the week
i cried when ds was overjoyed when the tweenies came on at their live show!
test tube babies
secret millionaire

SprocketAndTubbs · 11/11/2009 19:41

Oooh, just remembered another one - when I was a child, we found a stray dog (Jake) who we fed for a short time and who wanted to stay with us. My dear dad said that we had to take the dog to the pound as we couldn't really afford to have a dog and somebody may be looking for him.

We handed Jake into the police station and he went to the pound. Two weeks later, my sister and I were still sad about having to give him up. After school, my mum said that she would phone the pound to see if he was claimed - He hadn't been, so we decided to visit him. As soon as Jake saw us, he recognised us and was crying and leaping up at the cage door to get to us. The lady in the pound must have thought we were nuts as all three of us blubbed like looneys and clung onto the cage!! We decided there and then that we couldn't leave him again and took him home.

When we got him home, my dad was a bit worried, but within a week they had become friends and he was my dad's companion for life. (It turned out that he was afraid of all other men, as he had probably been mistreated, so this friendship was very special!) They went everywhere together and walked for miles twice a day. One day my dad went to take Jake out and Jake just couldn't get up. He gave my dad a look and my dad just knew. He said 'It's alright mate, you've had enough haven't you?'

He called the vet for a second opinion but Jake was a ripe old age of 13 (old for a German Shepherd!) and had had a brilliant life. He was lying in his favourite spot, in the sun, in the conservatory when he died. I only ever saw my dad cry twice in my life and one of those times was when Jake went to sleep that afternoon.

I always blub when I remember this as the majority of my childhood memories and memories of my dad involve Jake somewhere along the way. It reminds me how a chance meeting with this stray mutt brought us all so much happiness and now I try to remember that sometimes it's worth taking a chance in life!!

Sorry for such a long and cheesy post! but great thread, hatwoman!

Mooncupflowethover · 11/11/2009 19:42

The mail used to print poems in the back of the You magazine, it was by far the best bit of the paper!

This is quite appropriate for this time of year, and it always makes me cry..

Alun Lewis wrote it after spending his leave with his wife. Sadly, he didn't survive the war - he died in the Far East in 1944...

Goodbye - by Alun Lewis

So we must say Goodbye, my darling,
And go, as lovers go, for ever;
Tonight remains, to pack and fix on labels
And make an end of lying down together

I put a final shilling in the gas,
And watch you slip your dress below your knees
And lie so still I hear your rustling comb
Modulate the autumn in the trees.

And all the countless things I shall remember
Lay mummy-cloths of silence round my head;
I fill the carafe with a drink of water;
You say 'We paid a guinea for this bed,'

And then, 'We'll leave some gas, a little warmth
For the next resident, and these dry flowers,'
And turn your face away, afraid to speak
The big word, that Eternity is ours.

Your kisses close my eyes and yet you stare
As though God struck a child with nameless fears;
Perhaps the water glitters and discloses
Time's chalice and it's limpid useless tears.

Everything we renounce except our selves;
Selfishness is the last of all to go;
Our sighs are exhalations of the earth,
Our footprints leave a track across the snow.

We made the universe to be our home,
Our nostrils took the wind to be our breath,
Our hearts are massive towers of delight,
We stride across the seven seas of death.

Yet when all's done you'll keep the emerald
I placed upon your finger in the street;
And I will keep the patches that you sewed
On my old battledress tonight, my sweet.

TheDailyWail · 11/11/2009 19:54

I went to a memorial service of a lovely customer of mine. She would come in with her husband and they loved eachother so much.

He told us of the day they first met. He went home just 10 minutes later and told his mother he'd just met the girl he was going to marry.

They never had a cross word to say to eachother and they would hold hands.

Someone tapped me on the shoulder to ask me how I knew them. They must've been quite surprised when I told them they were customers of mine.

We should appreciate what we have while we can.

mrstimlovejoy · 11/11/2009 19:55

i had tears in my eyes today watching the remembrance service.i work in a rehabilitation unit for people with mental illness and quite a few of them were tearful throughout.
when my dd who's 4 asked if daddy had got a ladder,when i said yes she asked if he could put it up to the sky so her great nanna could come down and play with her.

LifeOfKate · 11/11/2009 20:21

Can't believe that no-one has mentioned Steel Magnolias... the scene where Julia Roberts has died and it's the funeral, and the wonderful Sally Fields says 'he (JR's DS) will never know what she went through for him'... every single time, and it's that proper shoulders heaving, snot dripping type of crying, I have to be really careful who I watch it with .

Can't watch animal hospital or anything like that.

The 'baby mine' scene in Dumbo.

ER.

Interestingly, I have become a real hard nut since I've been pregnant, only cried about twice. Weird.

juliemacc · 11/11/2009 20:39

Blue Peter

Liska · 11/11/2009 20:43

Rolf Harris - '2 Little Boys'.

Beryl Bainbridge chose it on Desert Island Discs (along with 'Bat Out of Hell') and I broke down and sobbed over my toast while trying to pretend to dd that I was fine...

babyicebean · 11/11/2009 20:47

The Last Post - everytime

Something on youtube called 'A pittance of time'

Most of the second half of Blood Brothers

And when the Irish woman in Titanic is putting her kids to bed at the end and telling them a story

And I am the daft so and so who cried in the cinema when the Titanic hit the iceburg

comewhinewithme · 11/11/2009 21:00

My friend made me sob today talking about her grandad.

Whe she was small her Grandad had a tiny bald patch and she would always kiss bald patch "to make it grow".

Then he got cancer and when his hair fell out she said she would kiss his entire head to get it to come back .

belindarose · 11/11/2009 21:13

I've just read the whole thread and am sobbing!
Used to be as hard as nails - didn't realise everyone got like this after having children.
I cried in baby singing class yesterday - at just about every song (fortunately DD (12 weeks) was crying too, so I was standing up with my face buried in her neck.
Any footage of mummy animals, especially if baby is suckling.
Gordon Brown being villified (!?!)

And please, someone else have had this happen too - when something makes me weepy (eg '2 little boys' on the radio) my letdown reflex is triggered! Is that normal??????

comewhinewithme · 11/11/2009 21:14

I have also been in tears all day imagining the baby whale trying to latch on to the boats .

dooit · 11/11/2009 21:17

Eva Cassidy singing just about anything. (tragic)

SuBo singing Wild Horses since I imagined having it at my own funeral and my DDs crying.

Wings of Speed by Paul Weller that I played at DH 1s funeral

on wings of speed That will bring you home to me I'll never be free - from the darkness I see As I wait for your smile. Though my hands are tied, My feet are bound by fate With clay at the base - As I sit and wait What visions I see. In dreams, she floats on a stream, With Jesus at the helm, the water reeds that beg, Her boat along the way - As she comes to me Now as the light is falling One candle left to light the way, Sailing home to morning She comes to me calling, To brighten up my darkest day, & the world fades away.. With her smile. Fly, on wings of speed That will bring you home to me I'll never be free - from the darkness I see, As I wait for your smile -

I'd bought Dh the Stanley Road CD for Christmas before he died because the "You do something to me" track was perfect for how I felt about him. The track Wings of Speed has a gospel choir on it that sings hauntingly beautifully.

releasethehounds · 11/11/2009 21:25

Haven't read all the posts but a poem for Remembrance Day called 'The Poppy of War' made me blub today. DD1 (11) wrote it after we took her to a Remembrance Parade on Sunday. If anyone's interested it reads as follows:-

Great thunder, a great boom,

You don't know what's going to happen soon,

One minute here next on the ground,

Poppies growing all around,

A pierced heart, a wounded life,

Think about the children and his wife,

So young, but yet, so brave,

Only thought about the lives he saved.

MrsOrganized · 11/11/2009 21:26

ET - can't watch it anymore - because I cry every time!

Ruthie22 · 11/11/2009 21:29

Since pregnancy just about anything sets me off!(DD is now 8 months so no excuse!)

NSPCC/great ormond street adverts or ones with animals in them; injustice; thinking about my dad; babies doing cutesy things; various films ... yoko jakamoko toto brought a tear to my eye the other day?!
Nothing used to faze me and I used to have an emotionally and psychologically demanding job but am now the complete opposite! bloody hormones!

teameric · 11/11/2009 21:30

I'm generally quite a wuss and the list of what makes me cry would be endless.
Most recently it was the films UP and Wall-e

roseability · 11/11/2009 21:31

The scene in Anna Karenina when she is reunited with her son

The bit in Cars animation movie when we see a flashback to Radiator Springs becoming derelict because of the new road and the sad song playing

Juno - I well up from start to finish

Donnie Darko - When he asks his mum what it feels like to have a crackpot for a son and she says 'its wonderful'

Beethoven's moonlight sonata

The Stately Homes thread