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To let DD eat a few grapes in the supermarket?

64 replies

LimburgseVlaai · 09/11/2009 15:08

This is triggered by the thread about letting children sit in supermarket trolleys, and what is and isn't acceptable.

When I take my DD (2.6yo) shopping, I usually get her to sit in the trolley by feeding her throughout the shop. Most of the food is packaged and weighed and I pay for it as normal (with the checkout lady usually holding up the package and saying "Did you know this has been opened?" or "Has a little mouse been nibbling at this one?")

But sometimes she gets hold of (unpackaged, unweighed) grapes and eats a few. I stop her after the first few, and the shelf stackers see it but don't react. But I do let her eat some.

I know all this is theft, and you shouldn't consume food until you have paid for it, and I would never let her eat (say) a whole banana or an apple; but somehow I have lulled myself into thinking that a few grapes won't do any harm. And yes, I know grapes should be washed before eating.

What do you think? Are my DD and I criminals?

OP posts:
diddl · 09/11/2009 15:36

Well, I think SolidGoldBangers has said all that needs to be said, tbh.

stuffitllllama · 09/11/2009 15:44

new not

you know about

and you are a natural with DD (2.6yo)

i put to you that you are demonstrating mn skillage and therefore cannot not know about grape controversy

RustyBear · 09/11/2009 15:45

See my link at 15:11:46 LimburgsVlaai!

Floopy21 · 09/11/2009 15:48

Am I the only one who thinks that eating unwashed fruit is pretty minging? I may have been the only one who has seen many a fruit picker relieve themselves amongst the produce though...

Rindercella · 09/11/2009 15:50

Arrrrgggghhhhh!!! This is the first grape thread I have ever seen, although I know they are as legendary as P&T spaces or Fruitshoots & Greggs sausage rolls. I finally feel that I have arrived at MN

LimburgseVlaai · 09/11/2009 15:53

RustyBear - I had a quick read through it but it was from 2003!! And there is no obvious link to 'Classics' on any page that I can see. I didn't even know there was such a thing. I have now done a 'search' for it and have found it.

Stuffitllama - I have only recently started looking at mumsnet and have mainly read rather than contributed. The conventions are easy to pick up. I just had a look at my emails and my mumsnet registration dates to the end of September (2009).

Sorry if all this reads like a bleat.

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MonstrousMerryHenry · 09/11/2009 15:54
mamadiva · 09/11/2009 15:54

Looks more like boobs if you do this Juney:

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Anyway I don't let DS eat unwashed fruit anyway but even fi I did I would not be happy about him taking from loose packs, from priced packs you intend to pay for anyway fair enough. I have been known to open a multi pack that I am buying and give him a pack although even then I feel guilty for some reason

mamadiva · 09/11/2009 15:55

Aww if the head and legs were over slightly that would've worked but you get my drift

MonstrousMerryHenry · 09/11/2009 15:55
mamadiva · 09/11/2009 15:56

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mamadiva · 09/11/2009 15:57

I give up LOL

Rindercella · 09/11/2009 15:57

Hello MrsTH! Cold all better thanks. Now nearly 21 weeks & have scan tomorrow...everything is feeling good

juneybean · 09/11/2009 15:59

hahahaha mamadiva it still looks good

MonstrousMerryHenry · 09/11/2009 15:59

Woo-hoo! Glad to hear it. Good luck at the scan, hope it goes well.

I've been fighting a chest infection which then threatened to become a cold (couldn't do my usual dancing madness as it would exacerbate the chest thing, apparently) - but I have been gulping down super-strong lemon juice and manuka honey, so both sets of bugs are now lifting.

16 weeks and counting .

GunpowderTreasonAndDragons · 09/11/2009 16:00
Biscuit
Rindercella · 09/11/2009 16:19

Well done!

Funnily enough, I saw Manuka honey at the supermarket today (where, incidently, no grapes passed DD's lips!) and thought of you. Good luck with it all

FimbleHobbs · 09/11/2009 16:33

It all depends if your DD is in the seat or the trolley, and how clean her shoes are.

EyeballsintheSky · 09/11/2009 16:35

mamadiva it just looks like she has mahooooosive jugs

SparklyGothKat · 09/11/2009 16:36

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edam · 09/11/2009 16:39

I'm sure I once heard a microbiologist or something relevant explaining that washing in water won't really get rid of anything on the surface of the fruit and you might as well not bother. Although I do still wash our fruit as I can't quite bring myself not to.

Limburg, at inadvertently bringing up a real classic ding dong. One of my friends used to give her kids a whole baguette to chew on - texture kept them more quiet than grapes and they are priced as one thing so no moral dilemma about not paying for what they eat.

MonstrousMerryHenry · 09/11/2009 16:47

Thanks Rinder. Think I should buy shares in a NZ honey farm...

grumpypants · 09/11/2009 16:54

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This is my attempt at a floozy in high heels. Can we have a mumsnet emoticon porn/rude bits emoticon thread please mamdiva?
PS Forgot about the grapes. I don't care, I won't tell.

grumpypants · 09/11/2009 16:54

hmmm didn't mean for her to be holding her boobs...

whoisasking · 09/11/2009 17:01

I dreamed about the bloody biscuit icon last night. I haven't even been here all weekend.

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I think I'm having an elaborate nervy breaker.